First time with a man (I want to try)

I want to try with another man, I have been in threesomes where we both had sex with the lady, I have even had him suck me while all together, I wanked him but that was it. I dont want to suck a cock but to feel being fucked, I do have a vibrator i made of my own cock and I have used it on myself, shown pics in the chst room, I make myself Cum without even touching my cock and it's the best feeling ever. I want to try a real cock, they would have to be smooth like me and take it slow, meet up either at the spa I go or round each others house and have nude fun together, nothing pushy or expecting, just be nude together and see how it goes, I would like to try both ways, being fucked and fucking as well. If you near London, and are Smooth, I can help with getting smooth, and fancy a nude night and see how things go, drop me a message, I'm really up for it and sure it would be great. MUST BE SMOOTH OR WILLING TO GO SMOOTH ON THE MEET