Frequently asked questions

True Swingers is a social network for lifestyle couples and singles, founded in 2007. Members use it to meet verified, like-minded adults, find swinger clubs and lifestyle venues, discover parties and events, and connect with the community discreetly, at their own pace.

Yes — creating a profile, browsing members, and joining the community are free. Sign up and start exploring in minutes.

Couples and singles across the whole lifestyle spectrum: experienced swingers, newly curious couples working out their first rules, and singles who respect how the scene works. What everyone shares is honesty about what they want — and respect for other people's boundaries.

Discretion is built in. Your profile shows only what you choose, faces are optional, and privacy controls decide who sees your photos. Nothing connects your lifestyle profile to your everyday life unless you make that choice yourself.

Our moderation team reviews member photos before they appear, and verified members carry a badge on their profile. Verification is how the community keeps out fakes, catfish, and recycled photos — so the couple you're talking to is real.

Browse the clubs and venues directory and the events calendar. Members list clubs, house parties, hotel takeovers, and meet-and-greets with the details that matter: vibe, dress code, and house rules.

Adult content is allowed — this is an 18+ community — but every person shown must be a consenting adult, and every upload is reviewed by moderators before it appears. Content involving anyone who hasn't consented, or that breaks the law or our standards, is removed and the account actioned.

No. Many couples and singles keep their faces private — in the lifestyle that's the norm, not the exception. You control what you share and who sees it.

Yes, strictly. True Swingers is an adults-only community: every member must be 18 or older (21 where local law requires), and age rules are enforced without exception.

Either. Couples and singles are both welcome — say who you are and what you're looking for on your profile, and search for exactly the same in others.

Not at all. Plenty of members are curious couples taking their first careful steps. The community is famously generous with advice — ask in the forum, read the blogs, and move at whatever pace works for your relationship.

Start with verified profiles, chat before you meet, and choose clubs or public venues for first meetings. Agree on boundaries in advance and honor them — consent is the foundation of the lifestyle. If anyone behaves badly, report tools put our moderators one click away.