Frequently asked questions

Straight answers to the questions people ask most about True Swingers.

As of September 2026, True Swingers lists 248K+ members, 1.2K+ locations across 25 countries, and 1.1K+ groups. True Swingers has been online since 2007.

What is True Swingers?

True Swingers is a social network for lifestyle couples and singles, founded in 2007. Members use it to meet verified, like-minded adults, find swinger clubs and lifestyle venues, discover parties and events, and connect with the community discreetly, at their own pace.

Is True Swingers free?

Yes — creating a profile, browsing members, and joining the community are free. Sign up and start exploring in minutes.

Who uses True Swingers?

Couples and singles across the whole lifestyle spectrum: experienced swingers, newly curious couples working out their first rules, and singles who respect how the scene works. What everyone shares is honesty about what they want — and respect for other people's boundaries.

Is True Swingers discreet?

Discretion is built in. Your profile shows only what you choose, faces are optional, and privacy controls decide who sees your photos. Nothing connects your lifestyle profile to your everyday life unless you make that choice yourself.

How does photo verification work?

Our moderation team reviews member photos before they appear, and verified members carry a badge on their profile. Verification is how the community keeps out fakes, catfish, and recycled photos — so the couple you're talking to is real.

How do I find swinger clubs and parties near me?

Browse the clubs and venues directory and the events calendar. Members list clubs, house parties, hotel takeovers, and meet-and-greets with the details that matter: vibe, dress code, and house rules.

What are the photo rules?

Adult content is allowed — this is an 18+ community — but every person shown must be a consenting adult, and every upload is reviewed by moderators before it appears. Content involving anyone who hasn't consented, or that breaks the law or our standards, is removed and the account actioned.

Do I have to show my face?

No. Many couples and singles keep their faces private — in the lifestyle that's the norm, not the exception. You control what you share and who sees it.

Is True Swingers 18+?

Yes, strictly. True Swingers is an adults-only community: every member must be 18 or older (21 where local law requires), and age rules are enforced without exception.

Do we join as a couple or individually?

Either. Couples and singles are both welcome — say who you are and what you're looking for on your profile, and search for exactly the same in others.

Do we need experience in the lifestyle?

Not at all. Plenty of members are curious couples taking their first careful steps. The community is famously generous with advice — ask in the forum, read the blogs, and move at whatever pace works for your relationship.

How do I stay safe meeting people from the site?

Start with verified profiles, chat before you meet, and choose clubs or public venues for first meetings. Agree on boundaries in advance and honor them — consent is the foundation of the lifestyle. If anyone behaves badly, report tools put our moderators one click away.

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