The lifestyle runs on trust, and True Swingers is built to protect it. These standards are not fine print — they are the working rules of a community where discretion and consent are everything.
Consent is the foundation. No means no, the first time, every time. Boundaries stated on a profile are boundaries, full stop: pressuring members, ignoring stated limits, or continuing contact after being declined will get an account removed. The lifestyle's golden rule applies online exactly as it does at the club door.
Verification keeps it real. Our moderation team reviews photos before they appear and verifies members so the couple you are messaging is exactly who they claim to be. Every person shown in any photo must be a consenting adult, and this is an 18+ community without exception.
Discretion is sacred. Faces are optional, privacy controls decide who sees your photos, and what happens in the lifestyle stays in the lifestyle. Attempting to identify, expose, or "out" a member to their everyday life is one of the most serious violations on this site and is treated accordingly.
Meet smart. Chat before you meet, choose clubs or public venues for first meetings, agree on boundaries in advance, and honor them completely. If anyone behaves badly — online or off — report tools put our moderators one click away, and we act on every report. Look after each other; that is what the community is for.