Some guys ruin it for the rest of us.

It bothers me to read about just how rude some guys are on this site. I can't help but feel that it is part of the reason why some women on here and the sister site will drop a guy from their list just because a message is sent. On here and TN, I have lost women from my lists the same day that I sent an email. I thought that I was being respectful in these cases. If they were uneasy, I wish that they had at least told me why. It happeded two or three times. I am a gentleman and strive to be caring and considerate. Maybe I am being overly sensitive, but at least I am trying to be a better person. If I suggest that a woman would look hot in a costume, it is just a complement. I am sorry if it comes across differently.