Cams in Chat

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• OZ

  

  ozzies

  Jun 13, 2012

  Well said,I haven't been into chat room for awhile, got sick of getting messages from guys asking me to stroke and cum for them ( and I am not one of the handsome, well hung guys) and this is from guys who have no cam( at least not on)

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• ME

  MemberOriginal Poster

  Jun 13, 2012

  I still have people insisting that it is against the rules to block them. It is not anywhere in the rules. If it were against the rules they would not give us the option :)
  

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• ME

  MemberOriginal Poster

  Jun 17, 2012

  I understand what you are saying about not blocking people but it IS an option. Therefore we have the right to use it at our discretion. If I were at a nude beach and someone was watching me and I didnt like it because they made me feel uncomfortable or whatever then I have the right to cover up or move to a different part of the beach. So because I chose to be on cam does not mean I have to let anyone watch me that wants to. So I chose who I let watch me and I will continue to.
  

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• NU

  

  NuddSaturn

  Jun 29, 2012

  Hi, So i gather from this thread that the chat is fixed???  I have not been able to connect for weeks now. I keep getting "connection failed".   Is there some patch or fix i need to install?  Thanks

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• MA

  

  Mark and Dan

  Jul 4, 2012

  I personally have never blocked anyone... but one of my pet peeves while camming is someone without a camera sending me a private message saying..."show me your (euphamism)" and when I don't send me a message back saying "You're a Jerk"???? really? Maybe I should start blocking folks like that... our account was recently flagged, was probably one of those guys...

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• BA

  

  barethat

  Aug 21, 2013

  [quote]I may have a somewhat different take on this...
  
  
  
  
  
  There IS a line in the chat rules (3.  If you do not want to be seen on
  
  your cam. Do not use it.) which some interpret to mean that if you are
  
  "on" you are not supposed to block people.  The problem is that it is up
  
  to interpretation.
  
  
  
  
  
  My philosophy is that turning on my cam in the public room is like
  
  walking onto a nude beach.  It's a public space, so as far as I'm
  
  concerned anyone can look.  But like going on to a public beach, I
  
  wouldn't turn to a guy sitting under an umbrella, covered in a towel and
  
  wearing a big floppy hat and say, "Sorry, you can't look at me, since I
  
  can't see you."  Or, tell one person he can look but another person he
  
  can't.  To me, that is the purpose of the private chats -- if you want
  
  to control who does or doesn't see you, then go private, instead of
  
  hanging out in public.
  
  
  
  
  
  I had the experience of having someone watch me several times -- never
  
  said anything, just watched, which was fine with me.  However, one day
  
  he turned on his own cam and I went to look... and he blocked me from
  
  viewing.  Oooo, not fair play!  I sent him a note about it and he was
  
  very nice and apologetic.  For some reason, when members of TN (and not
  
  TS only which I am) go to look up my profile, it shows "user not found"
  
  and my profile appears blank, which may also have something to do with
  
  using Internet Explorer... but that's a whole other issue.  He didn't
  
  recognize me, saw I came up blank and so blocked me.  That seemed a good
  
  reason not to block -- you might be blocking someone you have
  
  previously viewed.
  
  
  
  
  
  It's a whole different story about how guys respond to viewing me in
  
  chat.  Most never say a word, some are polite and initiate really
  
  interesting conversations, which is mainly what I am in chat for.  Then
  
  there are the guys who think I am a naked puppet -- "Stand up!," "Turn
  
  around!," "Show me this and that!"  I'm not there to meet personal
  
  requests in the public room -- I think they forget or don't realize that
  
  they may not be the only person watching -- and I tell them so.  If I'm
  
  feeling polite I say, "I'm sorry, but I'm not taking requests at this
  
  time."  If I'm not feeling quite so polite I tell them, "Sorry, but only
  
  Steven Spielberg gets to direct me."  Usually that makes them cool
  
  their jets.  And if they are really persistent I tell them, "Quick, go
  
  look at so-and-so and what he's doing!"  Like dogs to a bone(r), that
  
  turns their scent to another trail.  Point is, I have never had to block
  
  anyone -- so far -- and haven't had a pissy response when I give a
  
  polite "no."[/quote]
  

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• BA

  

  barethat

  Aug 21, 2013

  I agree.Just joined this site, but have been on another with the same set up.Many complain about women not camping, not responding, should be made to show photos and if they don't cam they must be men,
  Get over it.
  What a great way to get to know someone:
  If you don't turn your cam on you're a fake.
  I don't mid what I watch or who watches me.  No one forces you to connect.
  the only thing that annoys m is poor camera angles.

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• EX

  

  exhib28

  Oct 26, 2013

  I think that everybody should have their cams on on the chat room as a rule, and yes you can block anybody from viewing for any personal reason.
  

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• MI

  

  Mixxmaster

  Feb 5, 2015

  If you're a straight guy who only blocks gay guys from viewing you, I have some news for you... all those uncertified "women" viewing you are most likely men.

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• KY

  

  kykris

  Feb 22, 2015

  I think it boils down to common courtesy. When people have the ability to be anonymous, they behave in ways they may not normal use. I must point out that I do advocate anonymous users in general, however.
  

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• KY

  

  kykris

  Mar 7, 2015

  Thank you Dee, it is ALWAYS nice to get a women's point of view on this site :)
  

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