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We are a white couple just turned 50. I am 5'1 and curvy and he is 6'. We are in the Sarasota, Fl area. We are an attractive couple. We have spoken about adding another woman to our fun and have decided to move forward. We have no interest in men or other couples.
How do we go about this? Seems like there are no real people out there. Just picture collectors and creeps. Discretion is very important. Where do we find a real lady to share our first time with. Any advice would be appreciated.