New married couple

Hey guys, my wife and I have spoken about joining a forum similar to this for a while and we finally bit the bullet. We have both shared our fantasies and we have played out a few scenarios. We have done threesomes on 2 occasions. First was with a male friend of mine and the second time was with a female friend of my wifes. Both experiences were fun in a way but we had some nerves (my wife especially) so now we're looking to talk to other couples and hopefully meet new people who are willing to share some experiences with us. Any advice would be appreciated. We are in Eastern Long Island so if anyone is local, I would love to get to know some of you. Thanks in advance for your support and maturity