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New to Swinging

Stupid question?

Posted Jul 30, 2015

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jenn1024Original Poster
Jul 30, 2015

My husband would like for us to try swinging. I would also enjoy it. It seems like it would be fun and exciting. My concern is that I have had children and so my body doesn't look very good anymore. To be truthful, lots of stretch marks and extra skin. I do take care of myself and I am thin and told I'm good looking. But the fear is that if my husband with with other women who look better and "normal" then he won't enjoy sex with me anymore. And I'm also afraid that others in this lifestyle won't want to have sex with me, that I will be the one no one wants. Anyway, I guess I'm looking for other people's opinions and experiences. Thanks!

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    chaffivi
    chaffivi
    May 18, 2023

    Don't be so hard on yourself, it is not how you look it is how much fun you want to have. Chat with folks and see who clicks and go from there. No harm in trying. It never hurts to stick your toe in and test the pool.

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    Sexysuzzie
    Jun 23, 2023

    Me and the wife would also like to try swinging online to start with. We have talked about making love on cam whilst another couple do the same.

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    Sexysuzzie
    Jun 23, 2023

    Me and the wife would also like to try swinging online to start with. We have talked about making love on cam whilst another couple do the same.

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    offtoshow
    Jun 25, 2023

    we started to swing the same way you plan and it worked for us

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