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Talking to my wife about MMF

Posted Jan 18, 2021

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SnakeCatOriginal Poster
Jan 18, 2021

So my wife and I have been dirty talking a MMF 3way for a bit now. She desperately wants to be penetrated while she gives oral, but she strongly thinks that as a married couple it should only be us. She can't help but twerk her ass when she's on her knees sucking me and we both get super turned on when talking about another guy sharing her. I've talked her into getting a thrusting dildo and seeing how that goes. Any tips on how to get it to go further? I'd love to share my wife with another man and eventually experiment with other aspects of swinging.

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  • BU
    bubbabubba
    bubbabubba
    Jan 18, 2021

    Watch some videos of what you hope to happen? You know if she has fantasies of certain types of men try to find that and have sex with her as she watches it. She might then decide the real thing will be fabulous. Good luck.

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  • LO
    LondonNewCouple
    Jan 19, 2021

    Maybe try to do it via videochat with another couple and see how you guys feel!

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  • HO
    HotAmazonIncaGod
    HotAmazonIncaGod
    Feb 17, 2021

    Google Playboy Swing and search videos of past episodes of the Swing show on Playboy channel. These episodes allow you to watch others newbies get educated and exposed to swing lifestyle.
    Then have discussions about what you watched.
    Good luck.

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  • M
    M
    May 31, 2021

    Take her to an on premise swingers club. My husband and I had experimented with a lot of sexual toys and diversions. We decided to go to a strip club together and while looking for something upscale we found a swingers club. We decided to go and just watch....ha, yeah right. We left at 3AM and I was fucked out. I had several handsome men stick their pretty cocks in me. We've been swinging ever since.

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  • PH
    Phil
    Phil
    Dec 1, 2021

    Looking for a couple for a male male female threesome inbox me if you want to guys Xxxmwahxx

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  • DA
    Dan
    Dan
    May 6, 2022

    If you have swinger clubs around, Id say go check them out. Talk to the folks there. They can tell you the best way to start.
    Also, when using the M/F system, each combination means something.
    MFM = 2 straight males, single female,
    FMF = 2 straight females, single male,
    MMF = 2 bisexual males, single female,
    FFM = 2 bisexual females, single male,
    MMM = gay male,
    FFF = gay females.
    And then any combination after that.

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  • DA
    Dan
    Dan
    May 6, 2022

    If you have swinger clubs around, Id say go check them out. Talk to the folks there. They can tell you the best way to start.
    Also, when using the M/F system, each combination means something.
    MFM = 2 straight males, single female,
    FMF = 2 straight females, single male,
    MMF = 2 bisexual males, single female,
    FFM = 2 bisexual females, single male,
    MMM = gay male,
    FFF = gay females.
    And then any combination after that.

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  • CO
    couplesingh
    Mar 5, 2023

    Think the above folks are right.
    Although we are new to this, going to the swinger club really opened up touching other people and experimenting.

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  • WA
    Wannaplay410
    Wannaplay410
    Mar 12, 2023

    We both loved it. She was sucking me and he was taking turns fucking her in the pussy and ass.

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  • PH
    Phil
    Phil
    Apr 21, 2023

    I'm looking for my first ever swing experience with couple next time whenim in USA look me up message me deadly serious xxx

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  • JA
    James
    James
    May 17, 2023
    [quote]If you have swinger clubs around, Id say go check them out. Talk to the folks there. They can tell you the best way to start. Also, when using the M/F system, each combination means something. MFM = 2 straight males, single female, FMF = 2 straight females, single male, MMF = 2 bisexual males, single female, FFM = 2 bisexual females, single male, MMM = gay male, FFF = gay females. And then any combination after that.[/quote] I find this very fascinating. But I have been the M in the MMF and I consider myself gay, and why can't MMM be two bi men and a gay dude or FFF be two bi women and a lesbian (my sister's wife is bi and she is lesbian does she not still get to be bi in that relationship or am I just not getting all the way there)? I get the first set of distinctions. Opposites only no likes for those who are that way, makes sense. But then there's the weird assumption (or what I see as being that) that men and women who are in a MMF or FFM are bi, or is that more about what's expected? Like, if you agree to do it, you can't then say well I just want him not her or vice versa? Or is that the any combination after that because typing it all out was getting tiresome? I am legitimately asking cause I don't know, never did a formal swingers deal but clearly, have found myself in situations, lol not that I am complaining about it. Cheers.
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  • JA
    James
    James
    May 17, 2023
    [quote]I think you should choose your wording a bit better. Deadly serious? That makes me want to never meet you.[/quote] I tend to agree with you that it's not the best wording to use.
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