Looking for a place to go

My wife and I are looking for a resort that we can have fun at both in our room and out of it. I've heard mixed reviews about some club/resorts like Caliente in Florida. Some say go have fun, relax and see where things go. Others say it's a Feel-A-Thon and any surface can and will be used for sex.

I'm up for either way, I just want to know if anyone has been to any and what your experience was at the resort you attended (i.e. Was open beach, cabana, hot tub or pool sex OK? Did you have to sneak to do it at night only? etc.).

I don't want to be banging my wife and security come up and toss us out because someone complained about us having sex on a lawn chair.

Let me know what you think and where you went.

Thanks in advance!