compassionate pleasuer

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• LE

  lennyOriginal Poster

  Aug 16, 2018

  [quote]Everyone needs fulfillments. Makes sense to me[/quote]

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• LE

  lennyOriginal Poster

  Aug 16, 2018

  there's a whole group of nice respectful people we think we'll try and meet more

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• CR

  

  Cruvel

  Aug 16, 2018

  Are you guys in Philadelphia? I would like to help!

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• LE

  lennyOriginal Poster

  Aug 16, 2018

  we live in Missouri-you should know that this is volunteer

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• JA

  

  James

  Sep 16, 2018

  [quote]my wife and I just became "Intimate Assistants" to a disabled man-is this too weird for this group.[/quote] Im very interested in this not sure how it works I don't want to be paid, I just want to offer the service and care.

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• GR

  

  Greg

  Aug 14, 2019

  Same here, but not officially. I appreciate & seek unique opportunities which include those in wheelchairs, incredibly small penis, elderly, Never any regrets. There's no shame in compassion, just feelings of accomplishments & joy. I did have one man pass away from Sepsis last year.
  There's no reason to deny sexual pleasures for circumstances beyond their control.

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• RI

  

  Richard

  Dec 9, 2020

  This the male here. I have been a care giver for two women over the past twenty years. The first was my own longtime girlfriend. I think as a natural progression it would eventually come to taking care of sexual needs. My girlfriend passed away in 2019. In the end we did not live together but I still provided her meals and cleaned her home and cleaned her up also. I have another lady now and since I had experience as a caregiver she asked me to take care of her mother. Her mother had early dementia and Alzheimers and required care 24/7. I would cook her meals and be her constant companion. I would bathe her and sleep next to her all night. She came to depend on me for everything. She eventually started seeing me as a husband figure. She wanted physical love and talked to me all night long. I would provide her with the sex and love that she needed. She ended up going to a nursing home and because of the pandemic we could not be together. It is my feeling that she died of loneliness. In the end she starved herself.
  I would be more than happy to volunteer as a compassionate pleasurer for either a man or a woman. I would be grateful for any information on how to provide this service.

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• AL

  

  Allan

  Dec 21, 2020

  This is not too weird at all. You are offering pleasure and dignity to people who are looked down upon and generally sneered by much of society. It is funny how no one would say anything if I were to go on line and find another guy to have sex with, or hook up with a guy at a nude beach and enjoy ourselves. Yet people get queazy at the thought of having sex with a person in a wheel chair. I have been having sex with a few guys who are in wheel chairs / walkers. And yes, if they ask, I will sleep with them. Often all they want is to feel a nude man beside them as they sleep. And as I also love the feel of a nude guy beside me, so what is the big deal?

  To be honest, often I enjoy swallowing the cum of these older, more vulnerable gents more than a guy who is more healthy. Heaven knows I have had my fair share of one time blowjobs, and many times all the other guy is interested in is dumping his cum down my throat. I am totally fine with that, but these vulnerable guys are far more appreciative of being sucked, which is one reason I continue to do that.

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• ME

  Member

  Feb 9, 2021

  I wish I could find someone to do this too. Or even have it be done to. It gets lonely sometime being single.
  How did you find the people Missouri couple, and how did they find you?

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• JA

  

  James

  Feb 23, 2022

  [quote]This is not too weird at all. You are offering pleasure and dignity to people who are looked down upon and generally sneered by much of society. It is funny how no one would say anything if I were to go on line and find another guy to have sex with, or hook up with a guy at a nude beach and enjoy ourselves. Yet people get queazy at the thought of having sex with a person in a wheel chair. I have been having sex with a few guys who are in wheel chairs / walkers. And yes, if they ask, I will sleep with them. Often all they want is to feel a nude man beside them as they sleep. And as I also love the feel of a nude guy beside me, so what is the big deal? To be honest, often I enjoy swallowing the cum of these older, more vulnerable gents more than a guy who is more healthy. Heaven knows I have had my fair share of one time blowjobs, and many times all the other guy is interested in is dumping his cum down my throat. I am totally fine with that, but these vulnerable guys are far more appreciative of being sucked, which is one reason I continue to do that.[/quote] I love all of this, but can we agree to throw away the language around age and health, the whole concept of "healthy" is about making some bodies good and others bad and always has been ( we just use the terms we dont make them). Older men have power and strength in different places and in different measures and ways, Disabled or not, fat or skinny, old or younger, we are all the same and I like to see health and possibility in all which is the same as you... and I am open to all men gladly, and what they want matters most, there is something so wonderful I get from this service, the freedom and the release and the cum and the cocks all realize me and make me whole again, and the service role allows me to get to know a man in my care which I love, and I agree about appreciation and I am always grateful for a cock or someone on mine. I prefer to repeat now cause it is just better getting to know all about all the cocks in my care or my group of friends.

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• JA

  

  James

  Mar 6, 2022

  [quote]Several years ago I met an elderly man (in his 80s) whose wife had passed away and he was looking for someone to "give his penis some attention" (i.e. play with his dick). A friend introduced me to him. He had never been with another male but when I asked if he'd let me help him he said, "hell yes if you think you can get me off." LOL. He got naked and laid back on his bed and I started massaging his balls, playing with his penis and rubbing my finger inside his foreskin. I started blowing on his penis, then sucking it while slowly working his hole with my finger. He was letting out some very pleasurable moans as I fingered his hole. After about 20 minutes, he was semi erect and a slow stream of semen started flowing out of his penis as he said OH, OH,OH that feels so good. He had his first orgasm in several years. I asked if he wanted me to come back and he said, "hell yes"! I started going to his house every couple weeks and he was naked and waiting for me when I got there. After a couple sessions I asked him if I could try something new and he said yes. So I got him as hard as I could then put a little lube on his penis, straddled his body and slid his dick in my hole. I squeezed my ass muscles and pumped my hips up and down and he was able to have an orgasm and ejaculate some semen. After that, all he wanted me to do was "ride his penis". This went on for about 3 years until I moved and he had an orgasm every time.[/quote] That is awesome and pretty much exactly what I like to do as well.

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• LO

  

  love2jerk4u

  Mar 6, 2022

  I have a friend who takes care of older adults in assisted living housing. She sometimes has to help her clients in the bath. She told me one time her male client got a hard when she was helping him shower. She told me she felt sorry for him. She said that she got the soap and started to massage his cock, it wasnt her intent to jerk him but said that once she started she kept going till came.

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• CA

  

  Calidablue78

  Apr 4, 2024

  Knowing older people and how Randy they can get I have wondered whether there is a need for sexual care. I have slept with women in their 60s, stripped for a woman in her 70s at her request. I have played with some older guys just because we are getting older it doesnt seem that our sexual needs are less.
  We are human. I would gladly help assist.

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• CA

  

  Calidablue78

  Apr 4, 2024

  Knowing older people and how Randy they can get I have wondered whether there is a need for sexual care. I have slept with women in their 60s, stripped for a woman in her 70s at her request. I have played with some older guys just because we are getting older it doesnt seem that our sexual needs are less.
  We are human. I would gladly help assist.

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