I am experiencing bisexually curious fantasies,thoughts,interests, and needs!?!?

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• JA

  

  Jay

  Oct 27, 2016

  Well whatever you decide to do, only do it with folk that you feel very comfortable and safe with.  Take you time to get to know them and let them get to know you and understand your situation.  Have you tried on cam action with another guy, who can help you explore your interests from a safe distance.  Go at your own pace, and think about each experience and how it felt for you.  And don't forget it's meant to be fun, if you ain't having fun then something went wrong. Big hugs

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• CB

  

  CB

  Oct 29, 2016

  Nervousness just means that you are stepping outside of your comfort zone and that is not a bad thing to to.  It makes like interesting and keeps expanding ones experiences.  The first step is to try and meet a couple in a public place with no expectations and just see if there is any chemistry and any connection.  If there is then you can take it at a pace all three are comfortable with.  If not then you both go your separate ways, no harm, no foul.Good luck with your decision making and have fun

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 17, 2017

  Like you I am finding I am wanting to experience things with another male. But having had prostate cancer I have some erectile problems at times, also I can have an orgasm but not ejeculate. This makes me concerned about meeting up with someone. They would have to be very patient with me. Meeting up with another man both scares and excites me. I hope one day it will happen.

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• GR

  

  GrayFox

  Nov 16, 2018

  As a gay man, with many straight and married friends. I too have seen this trend amongst many men as they get older. Often, their wives have moved away from sex, or divorce happens. I have also seen men that have been gay since they were born, suddenly wanting to experience bi-sexual orgies and MF activities. I don't have a solid answer, but perhaps it is just part of our human sexuality that has been ignored or hidden. The internet allows us to explore, to voice and to learn....maybe it is allowing us to bring this area into the open.

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• CH

  

  Chuck

  Nov 24, 2018

  I have similar feelings. problem is I am not sure how to meet someone to learn with.

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• JA

  

  James

  Dec 20, 2018

  [quote]I have similar feelings. problem is I am not sure how to meet someone to learn with.[/quote]
  
  How do you meet anyone? You go to a place to meet new people, and choose one based in your interests and needs. Here's the thing. Exploring same sex attraction is not about hooking up for anonymous or other encounters. The first steps in finding someone to explore sexually with is finding someone you like, trust and get along with. Our community didn't have this freedom in the past. We hid and we did what we could learn and grow. That's why cruising exists and why it drove a hypersexual energy in clubs and why we have stereotypes about promiscuity. Discussion groups, meet ups, social gatherings. Make some friends, and then when you have a sense of what you want to do, find a group or a partner to do it with.
  
  I'm going to say this but no one ever listens to it. You will be inclined to take the path of least resistance, to find ways to make things as secret and private as you can and that isn't a bad idea on paper, it ends up teaching more sublimation and self denial. Be brave and be bold.

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• CO

  

  ConstantStrokers

  Apr 1, 2019

  I had been bi my whole life... But as an adult I met a guy at an adult book store and he blew me 3 times. he told me about SQUIRT.org I now have a steady married bi FWB who I play with regularly and we have added our bi wives to our fun. We meet weekly for lunch and suck each other off.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 8, 2019

  I have been in that situation with a guy. He was upfront with me about his prostate and that he wouldnt ejaculate. We both had fun.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 10, 2019

  I was the same and acted upon it, and now wished i had started sooner

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• HE

  heathNsteph

  Jul 13, 2019

  [quote]Personally I have found a lot of male nudists are either bi sexual or at least curious. Even if you look at profiles on here of men who claim to be straight you'll often find groups in their profile that are openly bi or gay. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of nude beaches I've been to alone where I've not found or been approached by somebody obviously interested in playing. (I should stress as a nudist who hates the idea of our beaches being taken away because of too obvious sexual shenanigans that I have always been extremely discreet if I have played.) So yes, you could probably find someone willing to join you at a beach, but you know nothing about them. Far better to find someone on here or a specifically male website.[/quote] I enjoyed reading you're post. As a curious man myself I found your post to be teachable. Thank you

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  heathNsteph

  Jul 13, 2019

  As a man who has recently become comfortable with expressing my curiosity, I find that I can relate to how woman must feel sometimes. A great deal of men are extremely hyper sexual, and really have no concern for what you want at all. It's about what they want and it's a problem. I have not acted on my curiosities, but I can tell you this.....it won't happen until I'm ready and no amount of cock compliments, or flirting will change that.

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• JO

  

  Joe

  Sep 13, 2019

  I have found that older straight guys often drift into man on man experiences. I have known at least ten guys whom I found looking for a quick blow job, or wondering what a quick blow would be like. I think they all considered themselves straight. I bet some of them still do. But it always began the same way. What they wanted was my mouth on their penises. Nothing was better than feeling my warm, wet, slick, smooth mouth, lips, tongue and throat on their hard shafts. This sort of non recip service usually continued for months or even a couple of years. Then, in every case, at some point, the guy would begin to touch me more...want to grope me...want to play with my penis. Next, at some point he would want to take me into his mouth. Sometimes just a lick or kiss...but it got more important and more often...then 69. I was not in favor of this because I got the most pleasure out of sucking a penis, not by being sucked. However, as things always progressed, it began to feel good as they kept on experimenting with sucking me. I usually cannot get off very easily in a guy's mouth. Not that I don't like it, for I really do, but it usually is not the easiest way and it can interfere with the cock sucking that I want to do. Finally, each of them reached the point where I achieved an orgasm. The excitement of having a guy, a straight guy, sucking me, however inexpertly, would make be climax and ejaculate. It is easy for me to climax with a guy's mouth below my cockhead so that he doesn't have to take my semen into his mouth if I am excited enough and some of the guys preferred this, while others were ready to swallow my load first time out. The result was that each of my guys eventually began to expect to suck me instead of my sucking each of them. Worst of all, I began to look forward to getting sucked by each of them. I was always ready to suck each of them, but I found I also liked getting sucked off. Sometimes we would 69 and I would often get to finish them after they finished me, but it wasn't quite like sucking the penis of a straight man.
  After we had mostly changed positions, I kept on seeing them and my climax became the most important thing in most of our encounters.
  So, where are they all today? They are gone, or pretty much gone. I still hear from one or two and I have some new guys, too. But my very favorites have all died. One in a violent car wreck and one from a heart attack, and some have moved to another state, but I do have new applicants , too!

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• JA

  

  James

  Dec 7, 2021

  [quote]A lot of men including me begin to discover interest in bisexual exploration as the get older. It seems quite natural. Everyones tastes differ of course. For me, the thought of stroking another mans cock is exciting. The thought of sucking a cock gets me hot as well. However, I have no interest in giving or receiving anal sex with a guy. Actually the thought of that is a turn off to me. Also, have no interest in being with a man ho has done anal sex with a guy. Not being judgmental. Just not my thing. And the highest risk factor for HIV is among men who have had anal sex with men.[/quote] That risk factor is no longer true in most places (there are small pockets where some communities are not accessing any prevention) in NA because the vast majority of men who have anal sex with men are on ARV's or PrEP/use condoms/are not positive (the information you shared is 10 years out of date for NA but, condom use or better yet, PrEP reduces the risk to small and not at all). The highest risk and fastest growing demographic which absolutely kills me is straight idenitified men and women 18-25. The bum sex thing, it's very common for anyone who lived through the height of the AIDS crisis whether m4m or straight and who grew up in WASP/anglo american culture like I did to react to anal sex the way you do, I was exactly the same (viscerally ill at the thought) but being gay, eventually I had to deal with it because well, the lovers they were not going to have it, and get some therapy which was good for me... that programming against being penetrated as a man stuff starts going in as soon as we are able to understand language and it is deep and personal but I don't see why anyone should have to change that preference unless they want to.

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• JA

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