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Is it weird to wear panties

Posted May 14, 2018

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8inchesofun
8inchesofunOriginal Poster
May 14, 2018

Bisexual, Dom top, but kinda fem at same time. Love wearing women's intaments, am I only one

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  • TR
    tranny5700
    tranny5700
    Jun 3, 2018

    I love to wear a bra, panties, stockings, and garters!

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  • NU
    nudeg123
    nudeg123
    Jul 26, 2018

    I love to wear panties and thongs sometimes tights too they are so sexy to wear women's undies feels great

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  • KE
    Ken
    Ken
    Jul 27, 2018

    I love to wear my wifes dirty panties from time to time :) Like the feel of her stockings too...

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  • ME
    Member
    Aug 2, 2018

    I also wear lingere of my wifes too. She loves to see me in and uses her strap on on me

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  • NU
    nudeg123
    nudeg123
    Aug 17, 2018
    [quote]I love to wear my wifes dirty panties from time to time :) Like the feel of her stockings too...[/quote] Looking good I like tights too
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  • JA
    James
    James
    Aug 25, 2018
    [quote]Bisexual, Dom top, but kinda fem at same time. Love wearing women's intaments, am I only one[/quote] It always surprises me and never in a good way when I see just how much shame and stigma around very normal sexual interests still exists. It is not weird to wear panties. They are fabric swatches. They have no innate meaning or value other than that which society assigns to them. If you enjoy wearing something, wear it. If it turns you on, wear it. Don't feel weird or ashamed, but be proud you are making a choice for you and what you want out of life. Some may think it odd, but that's there problem, not yours. Also, a femme can be a dom top. Man does not automatically equal dom top and femme (or woman) does not immediately mean bottom. The stigma around this whole top bottom nonsense is perhaps even worse. In classic, old school BDSM the dom and sub exist in a synergy where power is exchanged between the two with the ultimate power remaining in the sub. Being dominant and in the top role is seen as macho by many, but it's not a macho role. It's one of responsibility and sacrifice. You can explore any combo of attitudes, outfits, orientations and positions and none of them make you more or less of a man. None of them make you more or less a good lover. You may be in a process of opening up to new things, or maybe its a passing interest. It's all ok and enjoy all of your discoveries.
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  • MA
    mature069
    mature069
    Sep 24, 2018

    Love wearing panties, gs, thongs, stockings and leggings all the better with likes minded pantie lovers, male and female .

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  • CH
    CHSnudist
    CHSnudist
    Oct 26, 2018

    I only wear thongs and some cheeky panties. They are the most comfortable things i have ever worn.

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  • OU
    outsidenudist
    outsidenudist
    Jun 6, 2019
    [quote]Finally come out to my wife about my panty wearing. She is all about it. She even lays which ones she wants me to wear on some days or if we go out somewhere.[/quote] What was your wifes reaction when you first told her you like to wear panties ? I admire you for being very brave... I enjoy wearing panties myself, along with other lingerie as well... (smiling)
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    outsidenudist
    outsidenudist
    Jun 11, 2019

    What a lucky guy you are...!! Do you wear other lingerie with her ? (smiling)

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  • LJ
    Lisa J
    Lisa J
    Oct 13, 2019

    If course it's not weird, if you find it while than more power to you, why should you feel ashamed for something that makes you happy and does no ham to others.

    My gf's husband wears my gf's panties on occasion and we like to go out and find sexy clothes for each other. We don't share or previews until we get home it's fun to see them in it as a surprise and their smiles as they wear the clothes you buy each other.

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  • DI
    Dick
    Jul 24, 2020

    I completely agree with the previous post. Wear whatever gives you pleasure.

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  • TO
    Tom
    Tom
    Sep 28, 2020

    Women's underwear is much nicer than men's underwear. I like wearing knickers, the feel of the material on my cock makes me hard. My ex-girlfriend didn't like catching me wearing her underwear though. :)

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  • MA
    Matt
    Matt
    Sep 29, 2020
    [quote]Women's underwear is much nicer than men's underwear. I like wearing knickers, the feel of the material on my cock makes me hard. My ex-girlfriend didn't like catching me wearing her underwear though. :)[/quote] Totally agree women's underwear is gorgeous. So much more choice of colors and styles and the silk and lace feel great on my skin. Couple it with a matching bra and i feel so sexy.
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    Tom
    Tom
    Sep 29, 2020

    I was feeling a little daring earlier, I wore some knickers to my dental appointment. Think I'll wear some tomorrow when I got shopping. :)

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    Matt
    Matt
    Sep 30, 2020
    [quote]I was feeling a little daring earlier, I wore some knickers to my dental appointment. Think I'll wear some tomorrow when I got shopping. :)[/quote] That reminds me of something i posted in the "Men wearing panties" group. "I love wearing lace panties and have just had the perfect excuse to show them off. Ive just been for a hospital appointment and had to remove my trousers so was in front of the x-ray girl in my pink lacy panties while she moved me into different positions for the x-rays. It was a big turn on for me ."
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  • EK
    ekkmlk
    ekkmlk
    Oct 21, 2020

    This is a fetish of my close friend. I learned about it when, unexpectedly for him, I came to him and found him in this form. I dont know why for some its a very shameful thing, because theres nothing like that. He downloaded began to panic, and after our conversation he saw support in me and calmed down. He does not tell anyone about this and often sit on the webcam, where he can be who he is.

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  • JA
    James
    James
    Oct 21, 2020
    [quote]I wear bikini panties all the time at the beach. They look like speedo's and I can pull it off. I'm 5'11'' 170lbs slim build. What I like the most, they all but disappear when they get wet.[/quote] It took me a long time to be comfortable with this, or even try it out but I like wearing lingerie, being with men who do, and fucking in it.
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  • JI
    Jimmy
    Jimmy
    Nov 28, 2020

    If I have to wear underwear I prefer panties. thongs are my favorite

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  • JA
    James
    James
    May 17, 2023
    [quote]There are suppliers of panties cut to fit male parts. Google "male lingerie".[/quote] So call me old fashioned but what defines male from female garments is the cut. If you cut the undergarment for a male's physique then it's not a pantie anymore, it's underwear. Lingerie is a more specific term that refers to the style of the garment and in particular what's used to make it, and that's usually silk satin fabric, lace, fishnet, or gauze, but cotton lycra and spandex are also used. stockings garters panties g strings, teddies, nighties and peignoirs I think are all the possibles oh and corset and bustier in certain cases. Men's lingerie or what is much more closely related than todays regular men's underwear was just as much a thing in the past as it is becoming now. https://art2130araceligarcia.wordpress.com/2016/11/07/mens-underwear-1700-1870/ And this is a new line but they have made these things for men as long as they have for women. https://www.lhommeinvisible.com/en/mens-underwear/the-couture-underwear/sheer-softness-of-lace/ This is the prototype and the women's fashions take after it, or rather the forerunners because men were the designers and sellers and promoters of women's undergarments which were designed for the male gaze, not for feminine pleasure first, and women were not allowed to be immodest and did not generally show any of their undergarment outside of the home until after the 1950's. https://www.lovetoknow.com/life/style/history-panties So all that to say, the male garments were cut to fit female parts as one might expect given the patriarchal focus of the 19th century, they both evolved around comfort and in some cases chastity but it wasn't until mid century that the era of mass market lingerie was upon us, and men have been wearing and designing that apparel for themselves to their own needs for just as long if not longer. Which leads me to the final point which is that the "true" or authentic panty fetishist (which is specifically only those who get sexual arousal to completition from wearing these garments) wants them to be cut for a woman as the discomfort and bad sizing are part of the fetish.
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  • AL
    Allan
    Allan
    Apr 3, 2024

    I am a nudist and I hate wearing clothes, but when I have to , I like the feel of panties. They just feel better. That's all. Does that make me fem or drag or whatever? Who the hell cares?? Labels are created by people who are plain scared of being openminded. If panties feel good, or a thong feels good, go out and get some. Or as Nudistpig wisely pointed out, find a cut that is designed for a guy, get it in the material that you enjoy, and enjoy wearing them!

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