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Lights??

Posted Jul 2, 2016

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Lakeman221
Lakeman221Original Poster
Jul 2, 2016

Do you like to have the lights on at night when having sex, or do you prefer to have it dark? My self, I prefer to have the lights on. I like to SEE who I am having sex with, and her see me, too.

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  • BI
    bigfish
    bigfish
    Jul 4, 2016
    Lights on is by far the best. Even better in full daylight!
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  • LA
    Lakeman221
    Lakeman221Original Poster
    Jul 10, 2016
    [quote]Lights on is by far the best. Even better in full daylight!
    [/quote]Yes, I agree. In the sunshine is BEST.
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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 12, 2016
    Lights on so i can see the dicks
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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 15, 2016

    Oh, definitely lights on. Sex in the dark with me could be hazardous to your health! It can get very wild and often does :p

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  • VI
    vincedebo_ts
    vincedebo_ts
    Aug 6, 2016
    [quote]definatly light, even if its not very much.An ex liked it in the dark, always hated not seeing her body as she reacted to the things I was doing. Managed to persuade her to let me leave the hallway light on and door open.Luckily wife enjoys the light too[/quote]
    lights on too for us or outdoor!!
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  • LI
    lisa
    lisa
    Dec 24, 2016

    We like having lights on ,but do enjoy a game of darkroom suprise

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  • SE
    seohguy
    seohguy
    Dec 24, 2016

    I agree...ON!
    Love seeing her beautiful body and curves!

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  • PE
    Peter
    Peter
    Jan 4, 2017

    Lights on is by far the best, but!!!!!! When the lady wants to be surprised by how many guys or galls are there to pleasure her and guess who is pleasuring her then lights of and in the dark.
    Mind, have a Fb that wears a blindfold so she does not know who is pleasuring her.

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  • PE
    Peter
    Peter
    Jan 4, 2017
    [quote]We like having lights on ,but do enjoy a game of darkroom suprise[/quote] Yes that can be such fun, esp when a few of you on the bed or floor.
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  • LA
    Lakeman221
    Lakeman221Original Poster
    Jan 8, 2017

    One little twist to this question came to mind. If one member likes to have the light on, and one wants the light off, then a good compromise would be to use a strobe light. That way the light is on half the time and off half the time, depending on the flash rate it is set on. Has anyone ever had sex under a strobe light?

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  • HA
    Hanna
    Hanna
    Jan 8, 2017

    Always lights on. I like to feed all my senses, including sight.

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    Hanna
    Hanna
    Jan 8, 2017

    Always lights on. I like to feed all my senses, including sight.

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  • OL
    Olly
    Olly
    Jan 8, 2017

    So one of you wants lights on and the other lights off. Simple, blindfold the one who wants lights on. They can be an exhibitionist whilst their (lights off) partner can hide from view. I wonder why (s)he would want to if they are a nudist.

    And for group sex there are plusses either way. Lights on gives the perk of voyeurism - of everyone seeing the reaction as someone comes to orgasm as well as (one, or two, persons ) feeling it. Lights off gives mystery. Who are you playing with, who is playing with you and how many?

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  • ME
    Member
    Feb 25, 2017

    On, I want to be able to see what is happening

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  • AT
    ATLdavis
    ATLdavis
    Apr 4, 2017

    For making love with someone I care about, lights on definitely! Love to see the reactions I get and get feedback from my partner's facial expressions. But...an anonymous quickie in a dark room can be fun, too. I guess it's all good!

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  • PL
    playatl
    playatl
    Apr 5, 2017

    Yes. Lights on. :)

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  • LA
    Lakeman221
    Lakeman221Original Poster
    Apr 13, 2017

    So far it looks like the lights on, has it. Apparently most folks like to SEE what's happening and I guess I can't blame them.

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  • LA
    Lakeman221
    Lakeman221Original Poster
    Aug 19, 2017
    [quote]Lights on low. very sensual[/quote] Having a dimmer switch on the light can allow the adjustment of how much light is available.
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  • JA
    James
    James
    May 7, 2018

    Lights up bright until i know them by smell taste touch and feel. Then pitch black to create a non visual sensuality.

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  • PE
    Pete
    Pete
    May 2, 2026

    Usually prefer lights on but I do enjoy being in the dark room when visiting a sauna and not knowing who is groping or even fucking me

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    Calidablue78
    Calidablue78
    May 6, 2026

    Lights on, day light especially. I like to see the the person I'm pleasuring.
    Agree with the poster above, after a first visit to spa the darkness of the stream room was quite invigorating!

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  • LO
    lowhangers6
    May 23, 2026

    Be Serious! Why have your dick in her mouth if u don't want to watch?

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