Body image/issues

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• EA

  Earthling

  Oct 16, 2012

  Might ask what the circumstances are, Might ask about any sensitivities, This issue motivated me to write a small blog, I have other issues as well as having a testicle removed years ago.  I actually find the left side more sensitive (in a good way).  The brain is the biggest component in our sex drive.  Our self perception shapes a large part of our ability to perform.  How do you see yourself and how does it make you feel?
  

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• AT

  

  ATLdavis

  Sep 28, 2013

  I don't think the one ball would bother me at all.  I've found that being naked with others has actually helped many of my body image issues.
  
  

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• TR

  

  travellingbizguy

  Apr 14, 2014

  I'm not sure if the other person knew before getting undressed you only had 1 or not.  Myself, I would use it as a discussion item so I wasn't taken off guard when I actually saw/felt only 1.  We all have some flaws, either from nature or because of our lifestyle and surgeries.  Acceptance is the key.  We would be very shallow people if we could not accept your body the way it is.  Most of us have something we are self conscious about but it is knowing what it is and reassurance that there is no difference either way to the other person.
  

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• RO

  

  road_cyclist

  Apr 15, 2014

  Interesting .... I myself have one testicle that is bigger than the other. One gew about 1.5x during puberty and one about 4x.  I did a bit of research because it used to bother me and found that it is quite common.  One estimate is that 15-17% of the male population have different size balls (not sure though exactly what "different" means lol).

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• JO

  

  JonathanOriginal Poster

  Jul 25, 2014

  [quote]I don't think the one ball would bother me at all.  I've found that being naked with others has actually helped many of my body image issues.
  
  [/quote]excellent point.  Great pics BTW.

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• JO

  

  JonathanOriginal Poster

  Jul 25, 2014

  [quote]I'm not sure if the other person knew before getting undressed you only had 1 or not.  Myself, I would use it as a discussion item so I wasn't taken off guard when I actually saw/felt only 1.  We all have some flaws, either from nature or because of our lifestyle and surgeries.  Acceptance is the key.  We would be very shallow people if we could not accept your body the way it is.  Most of us have something we are self conscious about but it is knowing what it is and reassurance that there is no difference either way to the other person.
  [/quote]very well said my friend

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• DE

  delboy

  Aug 12, 2014

  Hi barefoot,
  I too have one perfect testicle and an undeveloped one. Have always been lopsided, but never prevented me from having an active sex life. Managed to secure a lovely wife and have two wonderful children. When visiting clubs I never have a problem attracting the opposite sex.
  Delboy.

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• NI

  

  Nikwax

  Aug 17, 2014

  [quote]Hi All,
  
  
  
  Born a solo testicle man. Have been insecure about it most of my life. Wondering what your thoughts are. How would you react if a guy got naked with you and he had one ball?[/quote]If someone is so insular and insecure in themselves that they would even have the audacity to question any defect about your body then they really aren't worth much in my book. I wrote 'defect' then winced slightly because it isn't really what I mean. It is different to what everyone expects is the norm but it is you and you are an individual. Of course people are going to be curious but hopefully they would be able to approach it in a sensitive manner. I had a partner who only had one testicle and it didn't bother me in the slightest. He was a passionate, loving guy and one testicle, two testicles or three testicles (lol), I would still have felt the same about him. After our first night together he asked me if I wasn't put off by the fact and I truly had to say that it had made no difference at all but then he explained why he had lost the other one and basically after that it was never discussed again in our 6 years together. It shouldn't make the slightest difference to who you are.

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• TR

  

  travellingbizguy

  Nov 6, 2014

  I met a guy a few weeks ago at one of my nudist gatherings.  He had HUGE balls.  I told him I didn't want to be rude but I asked if they were natural or enhanced: saline filled or pumped.  He told me they were natural but because they were so large they were VERY sensitive and he preferred if they weren't touched by anyone as they were very painful if touched too roughly.  Another guy overheard and mentioned that he only had 1 testicle and was self conscious for the opposite reason.  It so happens he had testicular cancer and is going on 3 years since surgery.  I asked if he thought about an implant and he said yes but the cost of the implant is a bit prohibitive for him and because of the cancer he said it is like a rebirth....this is the way he is, like it or leave it.  Life is too short.
  
  

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• JA

  

  James

  May 7, 2018

  I've had one ball, big balls, metal implant balls, and no balls. It's all new each time anyway, but if you are self conscious, why not get a titanium or other implant to balance it out? It won't be a horrible amount of money I don't think. it will feel relatively normal unless someone really goes for it, but it will make your scrotum hang differently and maybe that would be a good thing?

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• ME

  Member

  May 9, 2018

  I only one myself. I too am self conscience about it, but it seems to bother men or women.

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• SS

  

  Shiela Snow

  May 10, 2018

  wanna have some fun? meet me on kik shie.snow

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• BA

  

  BarelyGettingBy

  Jan 4, 2019

  Oh, yeah? Well I've got a tiny little nutsack. Balls are pretty much normal, but you'd probably have to make an earnest attempt to focus and observe that to confirm cuz my little pouch keeps 'em close.

  You know how your sack pulls 'em up tight when you're nearing your nut? Well that's my regular. At nut time, it looks more like um....um...uh....a swollen taint! Yeah, that's it Them nuggets are barely to be seen til afterwards.

  And I couldn't give a shit Not even two tiny little hard turd pebbles. They've never failed me, and I don't pay them too much attention anyway. I'm too enamored with my dick. It's fucking gorgeous. Seriously....it's like some high end designer dick, sleek and contoured. Not the biggest around, but plenty enough....and just so damn purdy. It's gotten nothing but raves my whole life, so who am I to criticize it, ya know?

  Anyway...enough about my mastur-piece. The point of all this jabbering was supposed to be just this: stop focusing and worrying about the parts you don't like as much and tall in love with the parts you do. Celebrate them. Celebrate you in all your uniqueness.

  If anyone looks doubtful, tell 'em a roll in the hay with you is a guaranteed ball.

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• GR

  

  GrayFox

  Aug 24, 2019

  We are all different---That is part of being human. And as a man, each of us is different in the way our bodies develop--I think that is why some of us are attracted to one thing and others to something else. I have only one testicle, but a cock that is just above average. I have been with men that also have only one, some that have two-big & small, and even one gent that did have three. Performance is not an issue, but mental attitude and self perception is. Yes, when younger I considered an implant, but decided I liked the "difference". And I have never had anyone turn me down so to me it is not an issue. So if anyone is reading this and you have only one, know that being unique does have advantages.

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  Nudist14

  Sep 1, 2019

  Same here it wouldnt bother me!!..

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• CR

  

  croydonscot

  Jan 30, 2020

  I can see by your profile name , that you have in part some humour with having one testicle, I briefly dated a guy who was also born with one testicle, the first time we had sex I didn't notice the next time I thought that maybe one testicle hadn't descended when we'd got undressed, so he told me he was born with one, it didn't bother him at all, he mentioned a friend who had one removed due to cancer and was offered a false one implanted , I asked my date if he'd ever considered an implant and he simply said , what's the point, it certainly didn't make any difference in the bedroom, I think a confident attitude is key and if its a deal breaker with a potential sex partner I'm not really sure I'd want to play with that kind of person anyway

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• JI

  

  Jimmy

  Mar 28, 2020

  We all have flaws. for me I have big tits. use to hate my tits. now I love my tits

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  Jimmy

  Mar 28, 2020

  Having small cock did not help.

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