Hi all. Classic story perhaps.... fooled around with guys growing up, HS and college. Always considered myself straight, just horny for some interesting fun. Married now with kids, but still find myself thinking about and jerking of to the idea of 69ing with as man, mutual masturbation, maybe more.
Would love to meet other men in similar situation. Hit me up here or wickr hloganedu
Pic share, role play, cam, or just chats
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JeffJun 14, 2021Your story isnt that uncommon at all. Psychologically, our sexuality falls along a spectrum and it does change over the lifespan. Much of our sexuality that others perceive is shaped by our gender examples, society, and cultural values. The individual is pressured by the fear of ostracism, punishment, and rejection for simply being their natural selves. Yes, there are men who simply never find women and their bodies or behaviours attractive and there are men who feel the same way toward mens bodies. Likewise with women or whatever gender one identifies as. However, the vast majority of humans fall somewhere between these absolutes of heterosexuality and homosexuality. Simply being ones true self is very hard for most people and in some cultures and societies it is impossible. Just remember that whatever you do, do it responsibly and preferably safely.
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 25, 2021[quote]Your story isnt that uncommon at all. Psychologically, our sexuality falls along a spectrum and it does change over the lifespan. Much of our sexuality that others perceive is shaped by our gender examples, society, and cultural values. The individual is pressured by the fear of ostracism, punishment, and rejection for simply being their natural selves. Yes, there are men who simply never find women and their bodies or behaviours attractive and there are men who feel the same way toward mens bodies. Likewise with women or whatever gender one identifies as. However, the vast majority of humans fall somewhere between these absolutes of heterosexuality and homosexuality. Simply being ones true self is very hard for most people and in some cultures and societies it is impossible. Just remember that whatever you do, do it responsibly and preferably safely.[/quote] Excellent comment!ReactReply
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gabareJun 28, 2021i think most men and no doubt women have a bi side , i have a straight friend i suck on a regular basis with my other friend i know he wants to taste cock but hasn't made the leap and may nevver will but that's ok as we'll continue to suck him.
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JackdogJul 1, 2021I agree fully. I was closeted for many years, divorced and started with men. Now I just stay on the gay side but I know so many nice guys who are married but also love enjoying another man's penis. It's great to help out and harmless but always NSA and just for fun with me. I have a husband now and am emotionally connected to him.
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jim4u76Jul 11, 2021U havn't returned my messages to you. Am I not to ur likeing?? I am 6 ft 1 in and 165 lbs shaved and clean.
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PeteJul 15, 2021Ditto to sunman44. Agree that AussmanG's comment was right on and I concur with his opinions!!
ReactReply - LILike2watchJul 21, 2021
It's really nice to have a friend that likes your blowjobs! Hard to find them though.
ReactReply - PEPeteJul 22, 2021
1kove2bnude- Exactly. For some reason straight guys or closet guys have found that cruise steamrooms are usually successful in some man fun. Understand the wife situation - likely you very much love her and never want to hurt her , and you put away your fluid or Bi desires in the back of your brain and lead an appropriate life , but now you're looking to make up for lost time.
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Muscle2020Jul 27, 2021You guys are totally bullshit, selfish and cowards! Either be straight in married and totally committed to a woman or be gay! Stop whining like a little girls!
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You guys are totally bullshit, selfish and cowards! Either be straight in married and totally committed to a woman or be gay! Stop whining like a little girls!
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outothebakyrdJul 27, 2021[quote]You guys are totally bullshit, selfish and cowards! Either be straight in married and totally committed to a woman or be gay! Stop whining like a little girls![/quote]
Except in your profile you list your self as bisexual...So ? What's with that?
You think it's ok to call guys like me names when you don't know our story. Or anything but what you may have read in our profile
That's pathetic. Why don't you choose between bisexual and straight ? Seems like words from a hypocrite.ReactReply - TR
trunudist68Aug 12, 2021I am not romantically attracted to men. I could never kiss one or cuddle, hold hands or anything like that. However, I have sucked a dick before.
I was with a buddy, we were in our 30's at his house in his pool in the backyard. We were both nude because we are both nudists. My GF and his wife were out for the afternoon shopping. A few beers in, we started talking about sex and stuff. We had watched our ladies have sex in front of us and masturbated while they did it.
It was about the eighth beer that I said, WTF. I swam over to him, he was on the edge of the pool. I put his dick in my mouth and started sucking. I must have been good because he came in about 2 minutes. Yes, I swallowed. It tasted different than mine (I eat my own a lot). I was rock hard so he said it was my turn.
I sat on the edge of the pool and he started sucking me. I went soft. Looking down and seeing a guy sucking my dick just did not do it for me. He tried for several minutes and then gave up. I just was not into a guy sucking my dick even though I had just sucked off the same guy and swallowed.
He was Ok. He completely understood. He was also Ok with himself having no problem with me blowing him. I jacked off and came in his hand so he could taste my cum. He liked my cum more than his own so I was right to say that mine tasted better.
When our girls came home, we told them everything. Nudists have very few secrets. They were upset they missed it and wanted me to do it again. Later that night, I did it again. Again I swallowed. He tried one more time to suck me off but again, I went limp. My GF sucked me dry.
We have been together many times since, but I have not sucked his dick again. It remains the only time I sucked a dick. I would probably try it again though.
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JamesAug 27, 2021[quote]You guys are totally bullshit, selfish and cowards! Either be straight in married and totally committed to a woman or be gay! Stop whining like a little girls![/quote] This sounds really petty. Do you think this is actually helpful? The added gratuitous misogyny is the best touch too. A man speaks with compassion and restraint. This... petty and cruel.ReactReply - JAJamesAug 27, 2021[quote]Agreed. The "B" in LGBT should be removed because they are the most discriminated against by everyone.[/quote] I am happy to agree biphobia is a real problem in general but how much time have you spent doing activitism and political work in the movement (the acronym belongs to the out politically active and activitist communities, always has, always will. This is not anything new but while we welcome the non out or non political to join us we don't actually let y'a ll make decisions for us. So no, we're not taking the B out and erasing those people who are in the movement because there's biphobia in the world. The problem isn't with the minority but as always it is the majority. That said once again, the biphobia is unacceptable.ReactReply
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OllyAug 27, 2021Agreed:- being Bi shows no commitment either to straight or gay. It's keeping all options open - why cut out half the population?
A Transsexuals' shows the biggest commitment - so sure you're in the wrong body that you change gender.
When on Naked Attraction I was down as Bi so I had to chose between 3 men and 3 women. I chose what I thought was a very attractive woman, partly because she said "It's what's in your heart that matters". She turned out to be a transsexual. and she told me her story. She had given up SO much to change gender.
ReactReply - JAJamesAug 27, 2021[quote]Agreed:- being Bi shows no commitment either to straight or gay. It's keeping all options open - why cut out half the population? A Transsexuals' shows the biggest commitment - so sure you're in the wrong body that you change gender. When on Naked Attraction I was down as Bi so I had to chose between 3 men and 3 women. I chose what I thought was a very attractive woman, partly because she said "It's what's in your heart that matters". She turned out to be a transsexual. and she told me her story. She had given up SO much to change gender.[/quote] This is lovely. I'd add that the suggestion that commitment ought to be to upholding both as valid and worthy choices for any relationship, not to "choose" (biphobia, homophobia, misogyny... someone loses when asked for demonstrated loyalty, and they aren't asking for your sake). And for trans people I like to use the term "becoming" the gender they are... change is the word we and trans people used for years and it's not anything I can tell a trans person to accept, rather I try to affirm the self they are asking me to and I will always do better if I can . You know how they experience life too.ReactReply
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Bernardo70Jun 9, 2022Bi is very natural and universal orientation, showing a versatile and tolerant sexual behaviour. It is also very peaceful.....peaceful !
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