Jennifer

I've been a Celtic and Nordic Pagan (Earth or Nature Based "religion" .. for the lack of a better word) since 1998. I've been part of the sex-positive movement, the LGBTQ+ community, the ethical non-monogamy community, which includes polyamory, and the burner (Burning Man) community, as well as many other interests that I advocate for over 30 years. I had a complete hysterectomy November 2023 which saved me from cancer but I'm nervous about meeting up with people that I don't know when I'm not sure if I can't feel confident about it. It gets frustrating needing human contact, wanting to cuddle, and be intimate with someone that truly cares but everything is so sexualized and performance based. I don't want to be objectified. I want to be authentic with myself and with others but very few people gets it. I've taken a 16 year hiatus from swinging and non-monogamy in general and wanting to dip my toes in the water once again. Yes, I am married (Neal, 65 yr old, bisexual man) and we have an open relationship. He use to have a swingers club in southwest Missouri about 25 years ago but has not been sexually active since he's been on diabetic medication for 15 years. I'm playful, ornery, and enjoy natural, relaxed settings. My best playdate was during the summer by a small waterfall with a deep pool in a rock and sandy bottom creek - wet slippery bodies and a blanket over soft sand.

I'm looking for friends with benefits which will help with my need for human contact, wanting to cuddle, and be intimate with someone that truly cares. I don't want to be sexualized or based on performance. I don't want to be objectified. I want to be authentic with myself and with others that gets it.

In the past, I've enjoyed threesomes, foursomes, the Great Rite, sex magick and healings. I love camping, canoeing, fishing, nature walks, going to regional burning man events, drumming, fireside conversations, dancing naked under the full moon, and being truly authentic with myself and with those that like to do the same. I smoke weed for trance work and to relax if someone likes to share. Alcohol consumption for me is a glass of red wine, mead, or a bottle of Guinness to shake off the default world.

Heilung, Warduna, Tal Bar, Damh the Bard, Enya, Lorena McKennitt, Faun, Peter Gundry, Eivor, etc; Classic Rock, Classical both modern and traditional, certain folk musicians, classic country like Waylon Jennings, Willie Nelson, Dolly Parton, etc,

Rocky Horror Picture Show, Wanderlust, Mists of Avalon, The Burning Man original with Christopher Lee, Vikings, The Last Kingdom, Shawshank Redemption,

Anyone that enjoys her/his/their/it authenticity and stays true to that personal self against all odds. Anyone that finds their spiritual self in need of other free-spirited and uninhibited people like themselves.