anthonyconrad713

I'm in my twenties and have been with my wife for a few years (in addition to dating years prior to that). In sitcom- and standup-cliche fashion (it legitimately upsets me and I'm embarrassed to even tell friends that this is happening), we rarely have sex of any kind. In the first few years of being together, it was very frequent, but over the past few years, her interest has dipped significantly, and me bringing it or attempting to start something typically results in rejection or simply laughing/playing off/ignoring. The near constant rejection is hurting my already low self-esteem. While I realize that swinging wouldn't work in our relationship (she barely wants to have sex now with her husband, so outside the relationship is even less so), I know that certain couples and people do like to engage in it. I'm hoping that perhaps I can be the person to come into your relationship in a fun and physical sense. Personality wise, I tend to be introverted and fairly low key, unless I'm around similar people and have a connection, then I can fully "be myself," which is a funny, silly, and thoughtful individual. I'll never be the life of the party, but can be fun with the right group of people. Physically, I consider myself a "decent enough" looking guy, and am currently in the best shape of my life (I do cardio, weights, and yoga on a regular basis).

All other elements of the relationship are strong and I want to stay with her, but sex is an important part of life to me (not clearly as much to her), so if you're a couple, married woman, or single woman that is looking to have "no strings attached" (or as much as can be expected in these situations!) fun, whether that means watching or directly engaging, I'm very open to it. Honestly I'd consider my fantasies fairly "vanilla," that is, I enjoy costumes and outfits, being naked outdoors and in public situations. I just want to have casual, different experiences with different people.