Blog excerpt March `14 - My last time with a guy...

So i've not blogged for a while and i feel bad about that so while i have an hour to spare i thought id take the time to write a new blog. I got some good feedback after writing about my first time with a guy but many people ask me how long its been since i last hooked up with a guy and how long ago etc so here it is, the last time i hooked up with a guy. So I have to go back quite a way to when i last got it on with another guy it would have to have been 2006 or 7 not long before i met my wife, some people find it strange that i don't remember exactly but in my defence, at the time i didnt know it was going to be such an significant event lol Id gotten chatting to a guy on another swinging site and we really hit it off, we had a lot in common and unusually for me we spent as much time chatting about common interests as we did about sex. This is something that was important to me, i was never on the hunt for a boyfriend BUT I always found it difficult to hook up with somebody be it male OR female if there wasn't at least some personal connection. If i get on with somebody then im more inclined to want to sleep with them and like I've said before ive never been promiscuous or the kind of guy that will hook up with just anybody - some of you may interpret that as me being over-fussy but thats really not the case! So me and Ivan (thats not his real name just in case i need to point that out!) had been chatting for a couple of weeks, we were both busy with work and just couldnt arrange a meeting in person that fitted with both of our schedules. Finally a week came round where we were both in town at the same time and both with free evenings that matched. It was on! I'd had a few meets under my belt by now so a lot of the nervousness that I described in my first meet had passed, obviously there were butterflys as technically this was a bit of a blind date but none the less i knew what i wanted and i was determined to get it - there was none of the "am i actually going to go through with this" type doubts that Id had in my first meets with guys put it that way We agreed to meet at a local pub that had a good nice outdoor area in the sun it was the height of summer and the weather was amazing so it seemed stupid to get together indoors. Sadly I had to drive as neither of us could accommodate at the time but that didnt really bother me cos driving to a nice secluded location and getting naked is kind of my forte. I pulled in to the car park a little early so i leaned against the car and waited patiently I had a blue Lotus Elise at the time so I was easy to spot, right on time Ivan came right up and said Hi as if we were old friends or something which was nice as it meant we were both immediately at ease with very little int he way of ice breaking to do. The evening went really well conversation flowed naturally and I knew from the word go that i defintiely wanted to get Ivan naked, he was taller than me and slimmer too with a really nice butt - trouble was he was a really chatty guy, I wondered at one point if he even remembered that we were meeting for sex and not just drinks n chat - he later explained that when hes nervous he keeps talking which in retrospect makes sense but at the time I did wonder! I did my best to occasionally bring the conversation subject back round to sex just to keep it in his mind that i was really interested in him but the subtle approach wasn't working so by the time sun had set and night had fallen I was ready to get things moving. Ivan finished his beer and asked if i wanted another soft drink to which i replied "no, lets go have some fun instead!" he looked a bit nervous as i said this and for a horrible second i thought he was going to bottle it and make his excuses "i'll make it worth your while i promise!" i said which fortunately sealed the deal, he smiled and said OK and we headed for the car. As i pulled out of the car park i hit my first stumbling block - the gas light came on almost as soon as we took off. i couldnt believe id made such a rookie mistake, i knew i would be driving around later and hadnt even thought to get gas in advance, so stupid. It wasnt a big deal gas wasnt hard to come by it was just one more thing getting in the way of us getting it on! Fortunately Ivan and i had discussed in advance where we would go should our meet go well and we both wanted to somewhere quiet so we could just stop at a gas station en route. As it turned out the gas stop was a good thing. I filled the tank and went inside to pay before returning to the car. As i got in and started the engine Ivan turned to me and said "your cock looks fuckin amazing in those shorts!" i was wearing linen shorts and of course no underwear so of course the outline of my cock was clearly visible if you looked closesly which Ivan obviously was. I explained that I never wear underwear to which he informed me that watching it flop around inside my shorts as i walked was a huge turn on and later on he told me that up to that point he still wasnt 100% committed to seeing our meet through to the end but after that he had made his mind up to get the shorts off me asap! We finally got to the secluded country lane that a very dark dead end that i had parked up in a few times before only to find a Police car turning in up ahead of us, i was devastated. "Dont worry" I said "I alway have a Plan B" I drove on to a residential area which had a small local park which backed on to a the back nine of the local golf course, the two were seperated by some woodland and that exactly where we were headed. I parked up close to some houses so the car was in a safe area and we walked to the park, Ivan had no idea where we were going but he followed patiently fortunately nobody else was around but then it was almost midnight, i had a small torch attached to my key chain so i led us deep into the wooded area so we weren't visible from the park and finally found a small clearing between some tress. I was playing it cool but until id found this spot I'd had no idea where i was going! I stopped and turned to Ivan who instinctively knew that we were on cos he just grabbed me and pulled me tshirt off. As he did that i went straight for his belt and as he leaned in to try kiss me I just dropped to my knees and pulled his shorts and boxers off, his cock was already rock hard and sprang up in my face and before his shorts were even at his knees his cock was in my mouth! It was very dark and visibility was poor so i hadnt really taken a good look at what was on offer and in any case I'd moved very fast! I was really impressed though, he was so hard that his cock was almost standing vertically i actually had to kneel up high and suck down on it rather than just get comfy and go to work on it at my level the fact he was so turned on was amazing he was gasping gently with pleasure. I grabbed him by each butt cheek and moved on to his balls taking each one in my mouth and working them with my tongue and sucking gently, i took the time to get a close up look at his cock and it was beautiful, it had a nice gentle curve to it and the head of his cock was quite long and shapely which explained why it felt so good against my tongue. I stood up so i could get Ivan naked and I as i got his shirt off he leant in and started to kiss me - now until this point in my life making out with guys had never really been my thing but this was different, he was an great kisser and it was surprisingly passionate and in the heat of the moment it was perfect. I stumbled back against a tree and the make out session continued for what felt like hours I was so turned on and my cock was straining inside my shorts, i pushed Ivan away and said "why have you taken my shorts off yet!" Ivan laughed and stepped forward to go for my belt but i pushed him back and told him to get on his knees. I turned around and slowly undid my belt and very very slowly unbuttoned my shorts before very very slowly lowering them to…