Blog excerpt October `13 - "Why Lengthy_magic?"

Its the question i answer the most, most of the time! "So why are you called lengthy_magic?" Now I'm a bit apprehensive about writing a blog about why I call myself lengthy_magic cos im worried it will halve the number of online chats but its October, its time for a new blog update and i cant think of anything else to talk about so here it goes.... So it all dates back to the earlier days of the internet or should i say more accurately the late nineties early zeroes. Back in the day i was a big fan of MSN Chat, I used to spend a lot time chatting to other bi or curious or similarly confused guys and it really helped me to learn a lot about myself. I was genuinely gutted when it closed down as its left a gap in my online social life that I've never really managed to replace. Anyway on there my nickname was Nobodyknowsimbi, (say hi if you remember me!) which was great because in real life nobody actually does know I'm bi and obviously if I'm in a gay/bi/curious or whatever chatroom obviously everybody knows I'm bi - see what i did there? Clever guy right! So anyway once MSN closed its doors (for understandable reasons) i was genuinely gutted and left hunting around for places to hang out online and needed to create new profiles for the various sites that i discovered and I wanted to keep everything consistent across all sites and come up with something unique that was easily recognisable as being me even if i was logged in to multiple websites. I spent a lot of time trying to come up with something that wasn't a pain in the ass to type - nobodyknowsimbi is fine when sober but after a few beers its gets a bit trickier to get it right first time :-) So i ruled out the usual stuff that had the play on the word bi like "bithebi" "bifornow" "biguy69" that sort of thing (sorry if you're reading this and you have those nicknames!) but I really couldnt think of anything that was original, catchy or indeed likeable. Nobodyknowsimbi was easy, i was up very late one night and Everybody Knows This Is Nowhere by Neil Young was playing in the background and i just made up a personal play on words and stuck to it but now I wanted a change but it wasn't going to be as easy as i thought. In real life my nickname at the time actually was Magic and i kind of wanted something that hinted at my real life self but obviously didnt give it away completely - just enough to kind of make people wonder you know. That was my starting point from which I was going to hang my nickname around basically "So why lengthy then?" your probably asking if you haven't gotten bored and gone off to look at naked people already! Contrary to the general assumption it has nothing to do with the size of my cock, although yes obviously i knew that by using the word it would attract a certain amount of attention in chatrooms etc but i figured that wasn't necessarily a bad thing you know. Also at the time and right up until recently i had an issue where despite having a lot of sex with long term steady girlfriends i found it difficult to orgasm. This didn't bother me as such because i could play it to my own advantage, if i had sex three four or more times in a day I would cum maybe once or twice if i was lucky and the misses thinks im a stud - happy days! Also I'm really into "Edging" and for me masturbation can be an indefinite all day activity if i want it to be, in a nutshell solo orgasms are a decision i make rather than an involuntary reaction to what I'm doing. So that's where the literal interpratation of lenghty came from - it was more of time reference than a size reference but all be it an ambiguous one. Initially i went with lengthy_magic and thought "that will do for now" until something better popped into my head, but nothing better ever did and it just stuck, before i knew it i had multiple profiles and a hotmail account all in that name and i felt it was too late to change it ever again. I even have people message me sometimes and say "hey i remember you" from another site in the past that i may have used which i think is really cool to be honest! There have been times where i kind of wish I had stuck with Nobodyknowsimbi especially now that I'm into camming a lot more than i used to be. I recently received a lot of stick in a chatroom for having the name lengthy_magic and not having an enormous cock which ironically came from somebody who to be fair didn't really look to be too well hung himself but that being said with almost eight inches to show off i really don't think i have anything to be ashamed of and lets face how often do you see guys on cam with a genuinely enormous cock... exactly, really not that often ! Wait, whats that? "Why the underscore and not a hyphen?" I hear you say? Ok I know nobody reading this is thinking that but for the record i just thought it looked better that way :-)