Embarassing Erection

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  shihoin

  May 19, 2024

  I've gotten "semi's" at the resort quite a few times; but as long as the penis is still "pointing down", it's relatively innocuous. You're just going to look well-endowed.
  It's much harder to conceal when it's a full erection; and most people will notice it if you don't immediately lay on your stomach. Then you have to wait it out and think about something really unpleasant to get rid of it. Throwing a towel on top of it makes it too obvious that you're hiding a hard dick.

  The only time I've gotten embarrassed was one day in the resort pool during my first marriage. My wife and I had the pool to ourselves (it was early in the day), and my wife was being playful with me. She couldn't swim, I was trying to teach her, and she kept grabbing me and pressing her tits against me. It didn't take long for me to get an erection. When she realized I was hard, being the prankster she was, she decided to lean into it, literally. Rubbing against my hard dick. So at that point I'm throbbing. Then she takes the prank to the next level by taking off, out of the pool, leaving me with a throbbing erection. I tried to wait it out; but I wasn't getting soft. So I decided to just bite the bullet and exit the pool.
  I was lucky though. There were only a few people on the other side of the pool area, and they didn't seem to be paying us any attention. So I made a quick beeline back to our lounge chairs, with my hard dick just bouncing around. If anyone saw me, they didn't say anything, which was a great relief. And my wife, like a jerk, was giggling the entire time lol!

  I can't imagine pulling that off at our current resort. The pool area is always packed with people, and an erection would be noticed immediately. But I'd be a liar if I said there wasn't a bit of a thrill to it. Not just from "breaking nudist etiquette"; but also from just feeling my hard dick throbbing openly and freely.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 19, 2024

  [quote]I've gotten "semi's" at the resort quite a few times; but as long as the penis is still "pointing down", it's relatively innocuous. You're just going to look well-endowed...It's much harder to conceal when it's a full erection; and most people will notice it if you don't immediately lay on your stomach...The only time I've gotten embarrassed was one day in the resort pool during my first marriage. ..my wife was being playful with me... When she realized I was hard, being the prankster she was, she decided to lean into it....leaving me with a throbbing erection. [/quote] I, too, have had the experience of being semi erect in front of other members at our nudist club. You are right that as long as the penis is still pointing down, its relatively innocuous. The problem for me was that that, once a I was in the danger zone, it wouldnt have taken much more stimulation to cause me to become fully erect. I have seen other guys at our club in the predicament of being semi erect and wondered how they managed to maintain control. That is a very funny story about your first wife embarrassing you. My wife is similar to her in that she can be a bit naughty. There were times when we were sunbathing at our nudist club and she would deliberately try to tease me in a subtle way. I think she wanted to embarrass me in front of the other women. She would giggle if I started to get hard. I usually managed to avoid getting a full erection. Sometimes I would deliberately put myself in a vulnerable situation. For example, my wife and I liked to go for a walk along the path past the lots where the members had their campers. Nudist etiquette indicates that a nudist should bring a towel to sit on. Towels also come in handy for a man to cover himself with in case he gets an erection. We were both completely naked and without towels when we went on our walks because we didn't see the need to take them with us. I remember one time when we stopped to chat with another couple by their camper. While we were talking, my wife playfully rubbed my side. I think she was just being affectionate, but I really had to struggle not to get hard. On the one hand, I was thinking that that would be very embarrassing! On the other hand, I was also thinking, the hell with it, I might as well just let it happen. Somehow, I managed to maintain control.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 22, 2024

  I have seen men at our nudist club who were embarrassed at having an erection. It doesn't happen very often, but it does happen. I remember one time when a single male who my wife and I were friends with was dancing naked with a young woman and he got a big erection. Everyone could see. He was obviously embarrassed and quickly scooted off the dance floor. Another friend (he happened to be married) was dancing naked with a woman and he also got an erection. He was VERY embarrassed. I think in that second incident the woman had deliberately pressed against him so as to tease him and cause him to get hard.

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  BnTNCCpl

  Jun 19, 2024

  We dont see any problem with having an erection in public at a nudist beach. The first few time I went I had what we call a semi and my wife was ok with it. She was also complimented about it by other males. She told them that it got the job done. This last May at Apollo Beach we met a single guy and he had a cock and ball strap on I guess to keep him in a semi state. After asking him to join us we chatted a bit and finally she asked him what the strap was for. He began a long explanation about how it project his package out etc etc and etc. sh seemed very interested it it.

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  BnTNCCpl

  Jun 19, 2024

  We dont see any problem with having an erection in public at a nudist beach. The first few time I went I had what we call a semi and my wife was ok with it. She was also complimented about it by other males. She told them that it got the job done. This last May at Apollo Beach we met a single guy and he had a cock and ball strap on I guess to keep him in a semi state. After asking him to join us we chatted a bit and finally she asked him what the strap was for. He began a long explanation about how it project his package out etc etc and etc. sh seemed very interested it it.

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  BnTNCCpl

  Jun 25, 2024

  And she kept talking to him about it. He was very cool about it. Then he asked me if it was ok to put something else on and around his cock and balls which BTW he had very big balls. He took his strap off then took his watch off his wrist which had a Velcro strap on it. He wraps it around his cock and balls then smiles and say how do you like my cock-clock! My wife smiled and replied back that she needed a closer look at it to tell time. He looked at me and i smiled and told him to go for it! He moved pretty close and my wife got a good close up view of it. She then told him he had a beautiful cock and lovely big balls. At this point o was getting a bit hard so I got up and left him and her to chat a bit so I could go cool down in the water. When I got back to them he had convinced her to take her suit too and bottom off. When I got close to them she told me he had suggested to her that when in Rome, do as the Romans do. Ad when she looked around she was the only one with a suit on. So she had him help her out of her suit. BTW he was now sporting a big boner as he chatted with her which I could tell she was very amazed with! A great time that day at Apollo Beach.

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  Butch

  Jun 25, 2024

  Awesome. I'd like to run into you in that situation.

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  BnTNCCpl

  Jun 25, 2024

  He asked us if we could use his cell phone to video him coming out of the water as he wanted to send it to his waxing lady friend. I said ok and then suggested that my wife do the honors as she was great taking pictures. He asked her and she said yes. He also asked her to take a few pictures too. She had fun doing it so when she was finished I asked him to use my wifes cell to take a few of us. He did. Then he handed her cell back to her and said take a few of me. She did. She then texted them to him. Later that evening he texted her the 2 short videos and a few pictures to her. He asked if we wanted to meet for drinks to se where that would take us. I believe he was wanting to set up for a MFM 3 some. Sad my wife never texted him back.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Aug 10, 2024

  [quote]We dont see any problem with having an erection in public at a nudist beach. The first few time I went I had what we call a semi and my wife was ok with it. She was also complimented about it by other males. She told them that it got the job done. [/quote] Before I got married, I used to visit a clothing optional beach. I enjoyed chatting with the ladies and was seldom embarrassed if I got an erection in front of them. But when I started going to the nudist clubs with my wife, I needed to be very careful to avoid getting an erection that others could see. That could have gotten me into some serious trouble. But, despite my best efforts to keep from becoming aroused, there were a few times when I lost control and got a hard-on anyway. In fact, there were a few of times when my wife deliberately teased me so as to try to get me hard in front of other people. She enjoyed embarrassing me sometimes.

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  Sunnyside_Steve

  Sep 28, 2024

  [quote]So at that point I'm throbbing. Then she takes the prank to the next level by taking off, out of the pool, leaving me with a throbbing erection. I tried to wait it out; but I wasn't getting soft. So I decided to just bite the bullet and exit the pool.[/quote] I guess in that situation you've just got to read the crowd. At a nudist club I'd hope any witnesses would be sympathetic to the context of the situation, although some do seem excessively prudish in that respect, speaking as someone who's only ever visited beaches rather than clubs. After having a similar experience at a textile family beach some time ago (where Iwasable to wait things out in the water) I'd now be less inhibited about calling the bluff of my wife leaving the water by following her as I am. Remaining close to her in that situation would likely point :-) the blame where it belongs!

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  Butch

  Jan 17, 2025

  I was at the gym the other day, and after my workout the locker room was empty. I decided to take a few pictures, so I played with my cock for a minute to get it hard, propped my phone in another locker, and started taking pictures. The very instant I took the last photo the locker room attendant came around the corner and saw me, my boner, and my phone. He came over to that locker after I took my phone out and shut the door. As he was leaving, he smiled, nodded and said, "Believe me, you've got nothing to worry about". I thought it was pretty damn hot.

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 29, 2025

  Interesting thread. I can't really recall an embarrassing erection and when they occur, I wish they wouldn't be embarrassing unless they cross the line - which can happen. I know my first few times in a social nudity situation, erections were a huge fear and the massive amounts of new sensations I was feeling, did cause me to become a bit "full" in size. I think these days, it's a non-starter and I can control it, but as I posted elsewhere, leaking precum consciously or unconsciously can give me away.

  I remember once at one of my favorite resorts with a great woman bartender (who had a great personality and could navigate through any situation when her customers starting drinking), that she once helped a "newbie" with an erection through the crowd to the counter. She eased the poor guy's nerves joking "don't look down" and he kept a towel pretty much in front of him as they made their way through the crowd. The poor guy settled down at the bar and I thought she did a great job helping him get adjusted in what could have turned him off to social nudity. In fact, this happened many years ago, and the guy has since become a really active member at the resort and is loved by all.

  Erections happen at resorts and beaches. Maybe not an often thing, but unless it's something totally crossing the line, let's not shame people.

  I have a 20+ year male friend who lives in a resort that I often stay with. I generally wake up with a pretty good pee boner. I use to dart to the bathroom and then wait till things went down in the mornings before going out for coffee. Eventually, I decided this was nothing to be ashamed of - it happens in the morning. Now, hey I hit the head and there's a pee boner while I get my coffee. Nothing that lasts more than a minute or so, but it's life.

  I think others have posted some great observations in this thread and how they dealt with things.

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  James

  Feb 2, 2025

  [quote]Interesting thread. I can't really recall an embarrassing erection and when they occur, I wish they wouldn't be embarrassing unless they cross the line - which can happen. I know my first few times in a social nudity situation, erections were a huge fear and the massive amounts of new sensations I was feeling, did cause me to become a bit "full" in size. I think these days, it's a non-starter and I can control it, but as I posted elsewhere, leaking precum consciously or unconsciously can give me away. I remember once at one of my favorite resorts with a great woman bartender (who had a great personality and could navigate through any situation when her customers starting drinking), that she once helped a "newbie" with an erection through the crowd to the counter. She eased the poor guy's nerves joking "don't look down" and he kept a towel pretty much in front of him as they made their way through the crowd. The poor guy settled down at the bar and I thought she did a great job helping him get adjusted in what could have turned him off to social nudity. In fact, this happened many years ago, and the guy has since become a really active member at the resort and is loved by all. Erections happen at resorts and beaches. Maybe not an often thing, but unless it's something totally crossing the line, let's not shame people. I have a 20+ year male friend who lives in a resort that I often stay with. I generally wake up with a pretty good pee boner. I use to dart to the bathroom and then wait till things went down in the mornings before going out for coffee. Eventually, I decided this was nothing to be ashamed of - it happens in the morning. Now, hey I hit the head and there's a pee boner while I get my coffee. Nothing that lasts more than a minute or so, but it's life. I think others have posted some great observations in this thread and how they dealt with things.[/quote] I am never embarrassed by what is natural and human and if it is out of the general range of what's socially acceptable, it will subside very quickly and I neither draw attention to nor hide myself. This doesn't mean I'm going around deliberately trying to get boners, it happens rarely and for the most of my youth, shame and social stigma made this an unpleasant thing to have to deal with, for no reason other than I internalized things that were not my problem. So I don't do that any longer.

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• ME

  Member

  Feb 2, 2025

  [quote]Interesting thread. I can't really recall an embarrassing erection and when they occur, I wish they wouldn't be embarrassing unless they cross the line - which can happen. I know my first few times in a social nudity situation, erections were a huge fear and the massive amounts of new sensations I was feeling, did cause me to become a bit "full" in size. I think these days, it's a non-starter and I can control it, but as I posted elsewhere, leaking precum consciously or unconsciously can give me away.I remember once at one of my favorite resorts with a great woman bartender (who had a great personality and could navigate through any situation when her customers starting drinking), that she once helped a "newbie" with an erection through the crowd to the counter. She eased the poor guy's nerves joking "don't look down" and he kept a towel pretty much in front of him as they made their way through the crowd. The poor guy settled down at the bar and I thought she did a great job helping him get adjusted in what could have turned him off to social nudity. In fact, this happened many years ago, and the guy has since become a really active member at the resort and is loved by all.Erections happen at resorts and beaches. Maybe not an often thing, but unless it's something totally crossing the line, let's not shame people.I have a 20+ year male friend who lives in a resort that I often stay with. I generally wake up with a pretty good pee boner. I use to dart to the bathroom and then wait till things went down in the mornings before going out for coffee. Eventually, I decided this was nothing to be ashamed of - it happens in the morning. Now, hey I hit the head and there's a pee boner while I get my coffee. Nothing that lasts more than a minute or so, but it's life.I think others have posted some great observations in this thread and how they dealt with things. I am never embarrassed by what is natural and human and if it is out of the general range of what's socially acceptable, it will subside very quickly and I neither draw attention to nor hide myself. This doesn't mean I'm going around deliberately trying to get boners, it happens rarely and for the most of my youth, shame and social stigma made this an unpleasant thing to have to deal with, for no reason other than I internalized things that were not my problem. So I don't do that any longer.[/quote] Well said!

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  love2jerk4u

  Feb 2, 2025

  A couple of years ago, I was at the nude resort here in southeastern Va., and I was in my lounge chair hanging out. There was a couple next to me and the girl was pretty hot looking. A while later, I had a little hard going on, not a full erection, just a little stiff, when one of the parks lieutenants (hard on police) came up to me and asked me to cover up. My neighbors next to me had stepped away, I think they ratted me out. Just will be more careful next time, like going in the pool.

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  Steve

  Aug 3, 2025

  Years ago, me and another guy from work were asked to make some repairs at our bosses daughters house. It was a pretty big job and we were working on it after hours. We finished on a friday afternoon and she offered to order some dinner - kind of make it a night to hang out by the pool and try out the new sound system and lights we installed. It was mid August and sticky hot out so we decided to go in the pool. We didn't have suits and she didn't want us naked so we swam in our underwear. She had always been "playful" so her casual touching and comments were nothing new. We all got in the hot tub and things changed. Almost immediately, I felt her foot in my crotch. I returned the favor and ran my hand up her leg to her pussy. The other guy had no idea what was going on under the water. She stroked me with her foot and I lingered her pussy. The other guy went to get another round of drinks and she jumped out to reset the timer so I quickly slipped off my underwear. When she came back, she put her foot back against my cock and realized I was naked. She slid a little closer so she could reach out and grab my cock. I was full hard-on. Seconds later, he returned saying that his wife called and was pissed we were there so late and that we had to leave. The daughter smiled at me and said that my ride was leaving and I should get ready to go. She knew I was nude and at full erection but he didn't. I smiled back, reached down and grabbed her hand. I stood up quick and he saw that I was nude, erect, and she was gripping my erection. She pulled back quick as I told him she didn't shave her pussy and I checked. As I passed by her to get to the steps, I made sure my erection passed right by her face - to which she leaned forward and kissed the tip. To this day, I wish I had stayed instead of getting a ride home

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  hank2245

  Aug 3, 2025

  Yes, same happens to me, i get erections often daily, just happens, as heading states, it a naturel occurance. I know dont go to official beaches etc because of the restrictions, i go to unoficial beaches etc nd generaly keep to my self..

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  clandau

  Aug 12, 2025

  I was boating with friends at a clothing-required lake. I was very exposed in the open catamaran, and my speedo did little to conceal my erection. I was embarrassed, but my wife thought it was great fun, and the friends did not mind.

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  Andy Perry

  Aug 12, 2025

  I'm gay and I was at a gay campground that was clothing optional. Of course, clothing optional to me means naked. I was in the pool, wearing a cockring, and started chatting with a guy. He likes older men (I was in my late 60's) and we started making out. I got an erection and I noticed the time and I had to leave. I got out of the water, on the side of the pool opposite my lounge and walked around the pool to my clothes with my cock standing at full attention. Loved it! I'm an exhibitionist, too :)

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  Butch

  Aug 13, 2025

  That's the way to own it. Exactly what I would have done.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Sep 27, 2025

  [quote]A couple of years ago, I was at the nude resort here in southeastern Va., and I was in my lounge chair hanging out. There was a couple next to me and the girl was pretty hot looking. A while later, I had a little hard going on, not a full erection, just a little stiff, when one of the parks lieutenants (hard on police) came up to me and asked me to cover up. My neighbors next to me had stepped away, I think they ratted me out. Just will be more careful next time, like going in the pool.[/quote] It's like that at the nudist club that my wife and I go to. While most of the members would probably not make a complaint if a man happened to get an erection, there are always a few members who will complain to the board. But I don't understand why someone would complain if you were "just a little stiff".

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Sep 27, 2025

  [quote]Interesting thread. I can't really recall an embarrassing erection and when they occur, I wish they wouldn't be embarrassing unless they cross the line - which can happen. I know my first few times in a social nudity situation, erections were a huge fear and the massive amounts of new sensations I was feeling, did cause me to become a bit "full" in size. I think these days, it's a non-starter and I can control it, but as I posted elsewhere, leaking precum consciously or unconsciously can give me away. [/quote] It's perfectly natural for a young man to be afraid that he might not be able to avoid getting an erection when in a social nudity situation. But I don't think it's entirely a matter of becoming used to the nude bodies. There is always the possibility of a new sensation that suddenly takes one by surprise. I remember a number of times at the nudist club that my wife and I used to frequent when I really had to concentrate to avoid getting an embarrassing erection. I think the stimulus was most often from having my beautiful wife near me. It wasn't from staring at the other women. One remedy was to have a towel available just in case.

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  Dennis

  Nov 7, 2025

  Four years ago I got an erection at a resort while giving a female good friend of ours a hug. She stood back for a moment , looked down and then gave me a smile before hugging me one more time.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Nov 11, 2025

  Were you embarrassed when that happened?

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