Embarassing Erection

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  Calidablue78

  Nov 12, 2025

  i was caught in the act by my older neighbour once, i was embarrassed then but she took it well and it wasn't the last erection she saw.
  The last was earlier this year. She texted to say she would pop in and i warned her i was naked, she simply texted back" fantastic, i look forward to it ".
  She let herself in and found me with semi, i was looking forward to exposing myself to her as always.
  She gave my a hug, patting my ass giving it a squeeze and a light kiss on the lips to which i got a full erection.
  I stayed naked as we chatted and drank in the sunshine.

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  ActionBuddy

  Apr 27, 2026

  The first time that I went to a Nudist beach, as I was walking along the shore, I got an erection. At first, I was not embarrassed, but self-conscious about it. Then I noticed that many of the other men at the beach were also sporting erections, so I didn't worry about it. It's natural. My cock stayed hard for many hours. I enjoyed it, and stroked off a few times. No one complained!

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  shihoin

  Apr 30, 2026

  The last time it happened, I was bear-hugging my wife from behind at the resort, with my arms around her waist. I should have known better. The moment my cock came into contact with her buttcrack, my mind went "oh no!" as I could feel myself getting hard.

  Typically when I start getting hard at the resort, I'm sitting on a towel and I can just turn around and lay on my stomach; or sit up straight and put a towel on my crotch. And then just wait. But that time I was out in the open with no towel around. I knew that the moment I released from my wife, my hard cock would be out in the open. I told my wife I was going to go for a quick walk; and she knew exactly why.

  I was more concerned that embarrassed tbh. Our resort is family-oriented, and I was fearful of someone seeing and misunderstanding my erection as me "showing off." From talking to women at resorts over the years, I also knew that they typically don't care that much about seeing an erection; it's more about the behavior with the person with the erection. As we were close to the entrance of the wooded trail, I started walking in that direction, pointing away from the crowd. I'm pretty sure one of our acquaintances saw my erection, but she just walked past me without saying anything. I was alone on the trail, so I was able to walk and let my cock flop around hard until it subsided.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 1, 2026

  [quote]The last time it happened, I was bear-hugging my wife from behind at the resort, with my arms around her waist. I should have known better. The moment my cock came into contact with her buttcrack, my mind went "oh no!" as I could feel myself getting hard. Typically when I start getting hard at the resort, I'm sitting on a towel and I can just turn around and lay on my stomach; or sit up straight and put a towel on my crotch. And then just wait. But that time I was out in the open with no towel around. I knew that the moment I released from my wife, my hard cock would be out in the open. I told my wife I was going to go for a quick walk; and she knew exactly why. I was more concerned that embarrassed tbh. Our resort is family-oriented, and I was fearful of someone seeing and misunderstanding my erection as me "showing off." From talking to women at resorts over the years, I also knew that they typically don't care that much about seeing an erection; it's more about the behavior with the person with the erection. As we were close to the entrance of the wooded trail, I started walking in that direction, pointing away from the crowd. I'm pretty sure one of our acquaintances saw my erection, but she just walked past me without saying anything. I was alone on the trail, so I was able to walk and let my cock flop around hard until it subsided.[/quote] I like this comment because it realistically describes what can happen at a nudist resort despite the best of intentions. Didn't you realize that giving your wife a bear hug from behind with your arms around her waist and your cock making contact with her butt could cause you to get an erection? Probably you just let your guard down for a moment. That's all it takes sometimes. Also, you can't have a towel with you all the time. That wouldn't be much fun. I understand why your biggest concern was that you would get into trouble. There are always a few persons at family-oriented AANR nudist clubs who might make a complaint upon witnessing any suggestive familiarity regardless of how unplanned it was. Fortunately, you happened to be close to the wooded trail.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 1, 2026

  Years ago, my wife and I were at our nudist club when a bad storm suddenly kicked in. There was torrential rain with thunder and lightning and strong winds. Everyone who happened to be by the pool ran into the clubhouse for shelter. No one had any clothes to put on. The most anyone had was a towel. There was a young man who may have been to a nudist club for the first time. All I know for sure is that we didn't recall seeing him at our club before. My wife told me later that she saw the young man with a full hard-on. Probably he got excited by being in the clubhouse with all the other naked people. She said that he looked embarrassed. I doubt that anyone would have made a complaint under those circumstances.

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  shihoin

  May 2, 2026

  [quote]Didn't you realize that giving your wife a bear hug from behind with your arms around her waist and your cock making contact with her butt could cause you to get an erection? [/quote] and the "sad" thing is that it's happened before! LOL! I touch my wife a lot at the resort (which she actually likes) and sometimes - in the "moment" - I get a surge of affection for her and hold her close to me. My penis doesn't usually touch her body (and I don't think it will...until it does...) and my physical reaction to it is often instantaneous. For my wife it's a visual confirmation that I still get hard for her; so she doesn't mind at all lol! On the other hand if I hug someone at the resort and my penis touches her; I don't have a reaction. It's specific to my wife. My cock has a mind of its own and decides that if it touches my wife; it's time to have sex. [quote]My wife told me later that she saw the young man with a full hard-on. Probably he got excited by being in the clubhouse with all the other naked people. [/quote] It happens. I remember a young newbie who was running around with his GF being playful; and he got hard in the process. No one seemed to care. Most nudists at my resort don't seem to care; but some resorts have "Karens." They're the ones who will run to the front office to complain about seeing a hard dick.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 2, 2026

  [quote]I touch my wife a lot at the resort (which she actually likes) and sometimes - in the "moment" - I get a surge of affection for her and hold her close to me. My penis doesn't usually touch her body (and I don't think it will...until it does...) and my physical reaction to it is often instantaneous. For my wife it's a visual confirmation that I still get hard for her; so she doesn't mind at all lol! On the other hand if I hug someone at the resort and my penis touches her; I don't have a reaction. It's specific to my wife. My cock has a mind of its own and decides that if it touches my wife; it's time to have sex.[/quote] You are right about your cock having a mind of its own. I have experienced that many times. But maybe when you hug a woman other than your wife, your mind subconsciously puts out warning signals not to become aroused because of the embarrassment that might cause.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 3, 2026

  When you unintentionally became hard when bear hugging your wife at the nudist resort, it was the possibility of getting into trouble that was your greater concern, not the embarrassment of having an erection. If you were to have an erection while hugging a woman who is not your wife, that would be an entirely different matter. Even if there was no risk of getting into trouble, you might be VERY embarrassed, depending upon the circumstances.

  Years ago, my wife and I would visit a nudist camp that was very rustic. There was no swimming pool. We would sunbathe on the grass near the pond. I remember when one of the young guys got an erection while quietly sunbathing with his girlfriend. He didn't bother to hide it. No one seemed to care. Similarly, one time I got an erection in front of a female member while I was sunbathing next to my wife. No one else happened to be around. I didn't bother to hide it either. In my case, it was more deliberate than unintentional. I wanted the person to see me erect. I guess that makes me a bit of an exhibitionist. No harm done, I wouldn't have done that if I thought I would get in trouble.

  There was an embarrassing incident that wasn't intentional. We were at the rustic nudist camp. I was standing talking with the owner when my wife bent over to get something out of our cooler. The view of her lovely breasts dangling and of her firm little ass was too much for me. I instantly got a full erection. Since I was still standing there talking with the owner, there wasn't anything I could do about it. Of course, my wife spotted my erection right away. I was hoping that the owner wouldn't see it, but he suddenly did. He didn't look too pleased. He didn't say anything though. After he left, my wife asked me, "Is that all it takes?" The answer, of course, was that my cock has a mind of its own. LOL

  I was embarrassed, but it could have been worse. My decision at that moment was that there wasn't anything that I could do about it so I might as well just stand there with my erection in full view.

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  shihoin

  May 5, 2026

  "Who is around to see it" is also a big factor, for me at least. Just one couple is much different from a crowd of people.

  I've talked about the guy at the BnB with his GF, who played pool late at night with my wife and I; and had an erection most of the time. It was just the four of us; and none of his indicated any discomfort interacting with him and his hard cock. So he had no reason to be embarrassed.

  Many years ago, my ex-wife and I were very good friends with another nudist couple, One morning, while we were staying over at her place, I woke up early and headed downstairs; sporting morning wood. I didn't expect her to be up, and she saw me and my hard cock heading down the stairs. She took one good look at it; and then simply asked me if I wanted some coffee. I had a momentary "uh-oh"; but then felt comfortable with her seeing me hard. We had a fairly intimate relationship anyway; so we didn't have much left to each other's imagination.

  Different story when there's a bunch of people around, especially if you're at a "regular" resort. I've talked before of how my ex once "pranked me" by causing me an erection while in the pool; and after a few minutes standing in the pool, it didn't seem to want to go down. So I exited the pool hard. I was red in the face because there were 10/15 people around me. Had it been just another couple, I probably would have just walked back normally to our lounge chairs instead of trying to "tuck my tail between my legs" lol!

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 6, 2026

  [quote]"Who is around to see it" is also a big factor, for me at least. Just one couple is much different from a crowd of people. I've talked about the guy at the BnB with his GF, who played pool late at night with my wife and I; and had an erection most of the time. It was just the four of us; and none of his indicated any discomfort interacting with him and his hard cock. So he had no reason to be embarrassed. Many years ago, my ex-wife and I were very good friends with another nudist couple, One morning, while we were staying over at her place, I woke up early and headed downstairs; sporting morning wood. I didn't expect her to be up, and she saw me and my hard cock heading down the stairs. She took one good look at it; and then simply asked me if I wanted some coffee. I had a momentary "uh-oh"; but then felt comfortable with her seeing me hard. We had a fairly intimate relationship anyway; so we didn't have much left to each other's imagination. Different story when there's a bunch of people around, especially if you're at a "regular" resort. I've talked before of how my ex once "pranked me" by causing me an erection while in the pool; and after a few minutes standing in the pool, it didn't seem to want to go down. So I exited the pool hard. I was red in the face because there were 10/15 people around me. Had it been just another couple, I probably would have just walked back normally to our lounge chairs instead of trying to "tuck my tail between my legs" lol![/quote] The guy at the BnB was probably more of an exhibitionist. I recall that this happened while the 4 of you were playing pool. No doubt he got excited by watching your naked wife as well as his own girlfriend. He probably also made a calculation that he would continue playing pool that way since nothing was said. The incident at your friends' house where the woman saw you with your cock hard early in the morning was not a problem because she knew that it wasn't your intention to show yourself that way. The story about how your ex-wife "pranked" you by causing you to have an erection in the pool at the resort was another story. I like that she was being naughty by deliberately trying to embarrass you in front of all those people. Has your current wife ever been the instigator in causing you to be at risk of having an embarrassing erection?

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  shihoin

  May 7, 2026

  [quote]Has your current wife ever been the instigator in causing you to be at risk of having an embarrassing erection?[/quote] Sort of. Years ago we were vacationing in St Martin while still dating. Back then the entirety of Orient Bay was clothing-optional from dusk until morning. It was actually her idea to go for a walk on the beach...bottomless. We were walking in the surf holding hands, when she suddenly switched from my hand to my penis lol! I got hard immediately and we just kept walking with my hard cock in her hand lol! So she was definitely the instigator; but there were barely any people on the beach. Even though I was a little "concerned" that someone might see us, they were too far away to pose a "risk." Would she do something like that now? Around other people? I don't know for sure, but I wouldn't put it past her under the "right" circumstances. She always has a smirk on her face when she's flirting with me at the resort and I ask her to be careful because I might get an erection.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 7, 2026

  [quote]Would she do something like that now? Around other people? I don't know for sure, but I wouldn't put it past her under the "right" circumstances. She always has a smirk on her face when she's flirting with me at the resort and I ask her to be careful because I might get an erection.[/quote] The fact that you asked your wife to be careful when flirting with you at the nudist resort because you might get an erection that others could see tells me that this is a real concern for you. My guess is that she likes the idea that you are so vulnerable to her flirtation and that it wouldn't take much for her to get you hard and to embarrass you. But, like you. she also doesn't want to get into trouble. Under what circumstances do you think your wife might deliberately embarrass you? Have you given this much thought? For me, it might be when my wife and I standing and chatting with another couple at the nudist club. She and I are completely naked. I don't even have a towel. There's no one else nearby. It's just the four of us. My wife starts being affectionate with me. Maybe she wants to kiss me. Maybe she puts her hand around my waist or on my ass. She knows that I am vulnerable, but she doesn't care. She wants me to get hard in front of the other coupe and to embarrass me. In this scenario, there isn't any risk of getting into trouble.

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  shihoin

  May 8, 2026

  [quote]Under what circumstances do you think your wife might deliberately embarrass you? Have you given this much thought?[/quote] A realistic scenario...hmmm... My wife and I will occasionally stay at a nudist venue overnight. After a day spent naked, we'll usually have a bottle of wine, get tipsy, and stay up late. And be all over each other, being frisky; especially if there's no one else around. The last time we did this we groped each other as we watched the sun set (very romantic). I can imagine a scenario where another couple "catches us at the right time", and starts engaging with us. Once my wife feels "frisky", she can't turn it off as easily as I can. So I can see her being so aroused at that moment that she does not "disengage" and keeps her body glued to mine; knowing it would likely result in an erection. If the other couple felt "open-minded and friendly"; she'd likely react the same way she does when someone "friendly" catches her sunbathing with her legs open: nonchalantly. I would be embarrassed; she would find it sexy. As I've said before; normally my wife is a "modest" nudist. But when she's "turned on", that modesty goes out the window.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  May 9, 2026

  [quote]normally my wife is a "modest" nudist. But when she's "turned on", that modesty goes out the window.[/quote] My wife has occasionally been that way at our nudist camp. She tends to get silly after having a glass or two of wine, especially when we are at the dances in the clubhouse. When that happens, she becomes less concerned about getting us into trouble. By late in the evening, other people have been drinking too, so it's less likely that anyone will make a complaint. The rest of the time, she behaves very modestly. I recall one time when she danced naked with a male friend. He and his wife had been sitting with us at a table when he asked my wife to dance with him. He was naked but my wife still had clothes on because it was cool in the clubhouse that night. But when he asked her to dance with him, she quickly got naked, tossing her clothes at me. Her "modesty" had obviously gone "out the window". The result of this was that he got an erection while dancing with her. She told me later that it was poking against her stomach. She thought that was very funny. I don't know if he became embarrassed or not but if that happened to me while I was dancing with a woman who was not my wife, I know that I would have been very embarrassed.

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