Fantasies about Candaulism

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  Calidablue78

  Nov 8, 2025

  i think I told you about my gf and guy on her first nude beach trip with me. The definition of my fantasy!
  My fantasies are always about her willingness to expose herself. To males or females.
  Some guys might come and chat with her while she sunbathes, all naked. I can see she is aroused and enjoying her view of them. That fantasy might go further but its off subject.
  Another is allowing herself to be seen in a shop changing room. opening the cubicle door to ask for different sizes allowing the guys waiting and view of her stunning body.
  I like your fantasy. Your wife exposing herself to a friend.

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  shihoin

  Nov 10, 2025

  A few years back my wife went on vacation with two friends; one was relatively new. During the vacation my wife, who by then was already a nudist, would come out of the bathroom naked and not "be in a hurry" to put clothes back on. The "new" friend noticed the casualness, and asked her about it. When my wife confided her casualness was derived from social nudism, the "new" friend confided back that she had been to nude beaches, and was totally on board with accompanying us to our resort with her BF. As a sign of "readiness", she even started coming out of the bathroom naked herself and the two women did hang out naked together (the third friend abstained but would later say that my wife and the "new" friend just hanging out completely naked was an unexpected "twist" in their vacation).

  When my wife came back and related the whole thing to me; I was over the moon. Interestingly enough, more so than the prospect of seeing her friend naked, her boyfriend seeing my wife naked was almost more interesting to me lol! I even asked her how she was planning on "breaking the ice." And her response was that she would get naked as soon as we pulled into the parking lot, face our male friend in all her naked glory; and "gently coax him" into getting naked too. That really fueled my imagination, as I could picture in my head the BF (whom I had become friends with) reacting to my wife just walking up to him, letting him have a good look at her naked body.

  Alas...he chickened out. I even tried to talk to him myself but he couldn't get past the shyness of being naked in front of us. I still bring it up from time to time; but my wife thinks it's a foregone conclusion. But I'm still holding on to the dream that one day, he will finally say yes.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Nov 12, 2025

  Here is another fantasy: My wife and I used to attend events held by a non-landed nudist club at a recreation facility that included a swimming pool and gymnasium. In my fantasy, she sees a young man who appears to be a newbie. She can tell that he's never been to a nudist event like this by the shy way he is behaving. After he gets out of the water, she goes up to him and introduces herself. He is trying to behave appropriately, but he can't help looking at her naked body. Suddenly, his resistance weakens and he gets an erection. She can see that he's very embarrassed. Fortunately, they are in an area of the facility that is away from most of the other people. She smiles and tells him that it's okay and that he'll become more used to the nudity after he has been there a few times.

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  Calidablue78

  Nov 14, 2025

  My partners friend was seeing a gynaecologist.
  My partner told me once that she and another close friend had been offered the opportunity to use his services. Odd i thought and she was completely unsure of showing herself to her girlfriends guy but said she'd go along anyway.
  The idea certainly aroused me and it turned out she, and the other girlfriend l, did go through with it.
  She explained the guy and both girlfriends were present so she was exposed to them all. She sleeps occasionally with the close friend so that wasn't a big deal with her.
  I jokingly suggested the friend and her gynaecologist man would be having some wild sex after seeing both her friends pussys and it turned out she was so horny that they had sex in his office immediately afterwards.
  Hughly inappropriate but still.
  The idea of my partner exposing her body is so arousing. She is slim, petite, small boobs with lovely nipples. a gorgeous smooth pussy i could eat for hours, and
  sometimes do.
  The idea of another man enjoying her body is so arousing

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  shihoin

  Nov 17, 2025

  When my wife and I go to the nudist BnB, which is a huge property, if there aren't that many people around she likes to bask in the sun legs open and exposed. She finds it relaxing and...a bit stimulating.

  My latest fantasy is for her to be there just relaxing and reading; while a younger couple just arriving is taking a stroll around the property. From the way they are holding their towel in front of their body, it is clear they are total newbies. As they circle the property and walk past my wife and I, I see the young man slowing down as they walks past, and taking several double-takes of my wife's shaven pussy clearly exposed. She looks up from her book, and just smiles at them without bothering to "close up." I then realize the man is hiding a growing bulge behind his towel. And I'm not the only one who realizes this; as his girlfriend gives him an angered look and nudges him to "keep on walking." I'm all smiles, of course.

  My wife and I then go off to lunch for a couple of hours. When we get back, the young couple - now pretty acclimated to nudity - is sunbathing nude on the patio. My wife and I stop by after undressing to make "proper introductions." As we talk, the young woman drops a leg to the side of the lounge chair, exposing her bald pussy. And when I see the BF glancing over at her with a stunned expression, I realize what she's doing. It's "payback" for his earlier "reaction." And I decide to play into it by giving her several "double-takes." And her BF starts getting hard again. And I want to tell him: "Welcome to the wonderful world of candaulism!"

  This fantasy is not entirely outside the world of possibilities. But it would take a perfect alignement of the "right people at the right time."

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Nov 17, 2025

  [quote]This fantasy is not entirely outside the world of possibilities. But it would take a perfect alignement of the "right people at the right time."[/quote] I think this is true for many fantasies. The circumstances have to be just right in order for things to actually occur.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 17, 2025

  It's quite intriguing to me that a married couple can happily both fantasise and enact having sex with other partners, expressing high levels of sexual desire for a different partner than their spouse... i hear that sometimes this is not even both partners but either the wife or husband is the one swinging while the other gets a sexual satisfaction from the desires expressed by their partner.
  Of course, i know that this is the essence of swinging but this division between love for ones spouse and sexual desire and indeed the turn on when that desire is expressed by your partner is still an intriguing subject.

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  pundmo

  Nov 17, 2025

  That's correct!

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  shihoin

  Nov 18, 2025

  I can't speak for all candaulists - since we're all different - but I think for many of us it is the expression (from surprise, interest, or even arousal) provoked in others by the sight of our significant other - in an "exposed" state - that we find pleasurable/arousing. Swinging might be a natural progression when sex is solicited as a result of this; but is not always the goal.

  Some spouses are on board with this, and indulge their partner by leaning into exhibitionist behavior. For others, like my wife, it's more based on mood and setting; and has little to do with my personal proclivity. There are times when she is not shy about embracing a reaction to her exposure; and at other times she is quite modest. But I'm sure she is quite aware that I appreciate these moments when she chooses to be exposed - fully and "openly" naked - while interacting with another nudist; knowing that she is making an "impression", be it surprise, interest...or even arousal.

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  shihoin

  Nov 18, 2025

  I can't speak for all candaulists - since we're all different - but I think for many of us it is the expression (from surprise, interest, or even arousal) provoked in others by the sight of our significant other - in an "exposed" state - that we find pleasurable/arousing. Swinging might be a natural progression when sex is solicited as a result of this; but is not always the goal.

  Some spouses are on board with this, and indulge their partner by leaning into exhibitionist behavior. For others, like my wife, it's more based on mood and setting; and has little to do with my personal proclivity. There are times when she is not shy about embracing a reaction to her exposure; and at other times she is quite modest. But I'm sure she is quite aware that I appreciate these moments when she chooses to be exposed - fully and "openly" naked - while interacting with another nudist; knowing that she is making an "impression", be it surprise, interest...or even arousal.

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• ME

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  Nov 18, 2025

  OK, so for some it's when other men (or i guess ladies) are showing clear signs of arousal seeing our chatting with your wife that can give you that turn on?
  And for some its where that can go further, and the wife also shows signs of arousal for another.
  Finally it might be the arousal of seeing your wife fucked by another.
  Lots of stages and one stage may not lead to another, that might be a limit for you.??

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Nov 18, 2025

  [quote]It's quite intriguing to me that a married couple can happily both fantasise and enact having sex with other partners, expressing high levels of sexual desire for a different partner than their spouse... i hear that sometimes this is not even both partners but either the wife or husband is the one swinging while the other gets a sexual satisfaction from the desires expressed by their partner. Of course, i know that this is the essence of swinging but this division between love for ones spouse and sexual desire and indeed the turn on when that desire is expressed by your partner is still an intriguing subject.[/quote] There is a big difference between candaulism and swinging. Candaulism is more of a visual, exhibitionistic behavior while swinging involves actual sex. Candaulism could be a prelude to swinging, but not necessarily. Just because I fantasize about another man seeing my wife naked doesn't mean that I want him to actually have sex with her. Also, there is a big difference between having fantasies and acting on them.

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• ME

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  Nov 18, 2025

  Thank you, its a fascinating subject, and thanks for shedding further light on the topic...

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  shihoin

  Nov 19, 2025

  [quote]And for some its where that can go further, and the wife also shows signs of arousal for another.[/quote] There are definitely "levels" to it. Many years ago I was at a nude beach; and not too far from me was a couple. The woman was sunbathing spread-eagled. Guys would walk by - and hover. One guy got hard, and the woman, encouraged by her BF/husband, started rubbing her pussy. Another guy joined the erected man, then another; and they started masturbating as well while watching her. And then a woman started yelling at them lol! And they all dispersed. I hear this is a common occurrence at Cap D'Agde. This is candaulism pushed to its "maximum level." Some candaulists fantasize about this happening to them. To each their own, but that's not my "vibe." Getting openly sexual with candaulism can certainly lead to other things. And even though I enjoy my wife being seen exposed; that's how far I'm willing to go.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 19, 2025

  Thank you for this explanation, i get what you are saying completely, i too enjoy my gf being admired, but I'm not so keen on that going any further. I didn't even really like the admiration and desire being shown by my gf to other men but liked the fact they were turned on by her.
  Hope that makes sense.

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  Calidablue78

  Nov 20, 2025

  Its an interesting discussion.
  I guess it's mostly Men that enjoy other men viewing their female partners, i know i do.
  But clearly women enjoy this too. The first time i went naked on a hotel ( it was allowed!) beach
  my late wife got extremely aroused during the day watching people viewing my nudity. So much so she allowed a guy to watch us have sex through the patio doors. It was the first of several times that when sexually aroused she was keen to allow strangers to view her naked and watch us from afar. I obviously loved it. I sometimes wonder how much further her desire to be seen would have taken her and our exhibition.
  Having since met, and enjoyed couples that participate in swinging and public sex i find it an interesting dynamic. It's a dynamic i would have liked to have explored more personally at one time, my partner with another man, but I'm content now enjoying men, and women, enjoying her view.

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  Nitehawk

  Nov 21, 2025

  [quote]And for some its where that can go further, and the wife also shows signs of arousal for another. There are definitely "levels" to it. Many years ago I was at a nude beach; and not too far from me was a couple. The woman was sunbathing spread-eagled. Guys would walk by - and hover. One guy got hard, and the woman, encouraged by her BF/husband, started rubbing her pussy. Another guy joined the erected man, then another; and they started masturbating as well while watching her. And then a woman started yelling at them lol! And they all dispersed. I hear this is a common occurrence at Cap D'Agde. This is candaulism pushed to its "maximum level." Some candaulists fantasize about this happening to them. To each their own, but that's not my "vibe." Getting openly sexual with candaulism can certainly lead to other things. And even though I enjoy my wife being seen exposed; that's how far I'm willing to go.[/quote] You mentioned Cap dAgde. Theres a section of the beach where theres a lot of open sex, and nobodys yelling for it to stop. If youre just strolling the beach you are unlikely to actually see the sex because there will be a dense crowd of people surrounding them. I think thats more simple exhibitionism than candaulism

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Nov 21, 2025

  In my fantasies about candaulism, the person who becomes aroused by seeing my wife naked is respectful toward her or at least not a threat. The situation would need to be a safe one. Also, my wife would either be aware that she is being seen by another person or would be okay with it after the fact. For example, we had an experience years ago where the friend of the owner of a rustic nudist camp disrespectfully gawked at my wife. He was not a nudist and had all his clothes on. I didn't like that.

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• ME

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  Nov 21, 2025

  It is a truly fascinating subject and the range of what's acceptable to us all varies from simply a man admiring type wife all the way to a man fucking your wife and plenty of stops in between.
  My own experience is that i liked men admiring my gf and wanting to do sexual things with her.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Nov 21, 2025

  I fantasize about scenarios where both my wife and the other person are nude, as compared to clothed-male-nude-female (CMNF) situations (although those can be very exciting too). If the other person is nude, his arousal will be fully on display. I also like when the other person isn't experienced in social nudity. For example, we invite the nice young man who lives next door to soak in the hot tub with us. We tell him that we don't wear bathing suits and suggest that he doesn't wear one either. He is embarrassed at first but decides to do without the suit. My wife sits on the edge of the tub with her feet dangling in the water, allowing him a lovely view of her breasts and pussy. He can't help looking at my wife the whole time. He ends up getting an erection that both my wife and I can see. Since this is a purely candaulist situation, he gets to see my wife naked but doesn't get to touch her.

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• ME

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  Nov 21, 2025

  I can see how that is a massive turn on, without giving you wife entirely away.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Jan 13, 2026

  Shortly after my wife and I were married, we visited my brother and his wife who were living in California. My wife and I were already nudists at the time. My brother was not a nudist, but he was a lady's man. He asked us if we would like to soak in their hot tub. He even suggested that we could all go nude. I'm sure that was what he and his wife did when they were alone, but I doubt that my sister-in-law would do that in front of other people as she was a bit of a prude when it came to things like that. Knowing how much of a lady's man my brother was, I didn't think that was a very good idea because I didn't want him hitting on my newly married wife. She was only 25 years old at the time and had a lovely body. My wife declined to go nude anyway, not because she was shy about the idea, but probably because she sensed the inappropriateness of the situation. In retrospect, I fantasize about my wife taking up my brother's offer and going nude in front of him. I'm sure that he would have gotten quite aroused at seeing her that way. As an added benefit, I could have been nude in front of my sister-in-law.

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  Mad Dog

  Feb 21, 2026

  I have two that I have thought about for years and still think about from time to time:

  My wife and I go to a benefit auction for breast cancer. As the evening goes on the bids become higher as people are drinking and loosening up their wallets. My wife excuses herself for a minute and I just assume that she has gone to the restroom. Suddenly, to my surprise, she appears on the stage next to the auctioneer. They speak for a moment then the auctioneer clears his throat and announces that the lady is offering her fur stole for auction. The bidding is good but less than enthusiastic. Things heat up when the auctioneer announces that the next item is the lady's black dress. There is some laughter, some gasps, and the bidding progresses quickly until the auctioneer says, "SOLD!!" As I watch incredulously my wife slips off her dress, hands it to the auctioneer, and stands there in nothing but bra, panties, and shoes. The shoes go next and I can hardly believe it when the auctioneer opens bidding for her bra. The room is silent except for the auctioneers patter and the bids being shouted. My jaw drops at the end when she removes her bra letting her breasts hang free in front of everyone. I draw a deep breath when the auctioneer opens bidding for the lady's panties. As I realize what is happening I feel my penis grow and then harden am astounded to find that I am enjoying this immensely and eagerly anticipating what is about to happen. Bids come in quickly and when the hammer finally falls I watch my beautiful wife slowly remove her panties. They are given to the winner and the whole room applauds. My wife simply smiles then turns away and walks off the stage.

  The second is a bit tamer. As my birthday approaches my wife tells me that she is going to invite four couples that we are friends with over to celebrate with a party on our patio. She suggests getting a keg of beer and asks what I would like besides that. I tell her that I want bbq then jokingly tell her if she could hire a nude barmaid that would be perfect. The night of the party we all gather on the patio and enjoy some excellent catered food. We have the keg in the kitchen and halfway through the evening my wife goes in to fetch another round of drinks. When she comes back out she is wearing nothing but her rings, a gold chain necklace that I had given her, and a gold waist chain. Her entire body is bare including her beautiful breasts with their stiff nipples and her freshly shaven pussy. Our guests stare at her, absolutely speechless. My wife smiles and says, "He asked for a nude barmaid so he is getting one." With that she begins handing out the drinks to our guests. She then sits down next to me, kisses me, and says, "Happy birthday, darling" She stays that way the rest of the evening and acts totally oblivious to her nudity.

  I have had both of those for years, sometimes with minor variations, and still find them very exciting.

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  playfulcouple2022Original Poster

  Feb 22, 2026

  To Frogtongue: I love your fantasy where your wife slowly takes off each item of clothing in order to have them auctioned off for charity. If I were there, I would definitely bid on her panties. LOL. I also enjoyed your second fantasy where your wife decides to be a nude barmaid at your birthday barbeque. What a nice birthday present!

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